A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi I've written here before about me me not being able to stop thinking about a female teacher not in a sexual way by the way but I just generally keep thinking about her and I posted in my last question how I went back to that school for work experience and found out that she got divorced and how it hit me as if I was concerned about her. I also said stuff about how I hate her because I do because she shouts a lot but it's as if I think there is another side to her and she really is nice and how I feel awkward seeing her the in street, in case she remembers me (we never really spoke at school and I was also off a lot being ill or getting sent home) I know the first title of my question was "I don't want to think about her like I do because I don't want to be bi" and another was "how can I stop thinking about my teacher" i think or something like that. Anyway as said i don't think of her in a sexual way just in a general way if that makes sense as I'm not gay or bi. The reason I writing up again is because I've started having dreams about her and about me being back at that school and being able to see her. The dream i had last was about me and this friend going back to that school for a week to help out and she was there but she had really changed she didn't shout as much she was really nice and we seemed to get on like friends and she spoke to me normally. Later on in the dream me, my friend, this teacher and a few kids were tidying up in the playground and we stared talking again and I don't know how i got to ask her this but she had said one reason that she got divorced and I asked her "that's not the real reason is it?" as if i knew something was wrong with her and the weird thing was she said no and started crying then we went off and talked for a bit and all finished what we were doing and then the dream seemed to end. It was as if I cared about her or something because I really don't know what gave me the courage to ask even if it was a dream. I've also had dreams that me and one of my friends have been walking about on the street of that school I deliberately try to see her or i do if we are somewhere else. There was another dream I had once that I was watching her life with her and her husband but they couldn't see me like i was watching tv but I wasn't. It's not that i don't like having the dreams because I like thinking of her and don't want to forget her. I'm getting very confused now why am I having these dreams and what do they mean? Am I being told something here? Hope you can help and hope I didn't confuse you!
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reader, Ask me +, writes (25 February 2009):
Oh my god, you're excactly the same as me! I felt like this, with a female teacher. Its really weird isn't it? Because you know obviously you don't fancy her, but for some reason she's in your mind, and then she won't leave, which worries you even more, tricking your mind into thinking you're in love with this woman when you know full well you don't! I keep getting that with random people, it's really scary but i think its just because we're growing up. I just turned fifteen, like a couple of weeks ago. But i am such a worrier, i always think like this, but i move on from different people! :L xx
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reader, love-him +, writes (1 July 2007):
 Hey babe, ur not gona see her that much, apart from out of school, where you dont talk, you need to get a gf/bf, and take ur mind of it.. this is (my advise here lol) just a crush, she hasnt said anything to you about it has she and its not like anything else happens, on her behalf. mail me if u wanna talk x x x x x x
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