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writes:I fancied a girl who I'm crazy about for 7 months now! I think we were good mates but found out she really fancies my best mate. My best mate has already got girlfriend and hates her. She's used me a lot to get to him, my friend told me everything today, and it so badly hurts. We were going on a date tomorrow but she text my friend saying she can go with him instead of me if he wants to. My mate told me to save my life. I hate her, I was extremely happy about the date now I'm so hurt, and so depressed. I'm getting over it, but I want to tell her everything that I know. I want to embarrass her and say "my Love for you made me blind and you took advantage", then explain. She'll have to admit it I got too many of her texts as evidence. I just wanna say she's pathetic! Any advice you can give to me to talk to her. I dont want to have any contact with her after. I hate her and I am hurt!
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reader, DIE-romantic. +, writes (29 June 2007):
 Well, i know how that feels also, but like whats been said hate is a very strong word, and everybody says it when they're angry. Thats completely fair enough. All you can do is just stay well out of her way, it will take a while to get over something like this. Let her get on with it, you might find she will regret it when shes left with nothing at all. Then thats her problem. Time is a great healer.
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reader, leonard j.Douglas  +, writes (29 June 2007):
Hate is a two-edged-sword that not only cuts the one you hate, but it will also cut your own heart if you keep it in your soul. Sure you have been used, haven't we all. So Please be kind and gentle when you talk to her. We all stub our toes on the way to maturity, And we all do dumb things upon that rocky-road of relationships. She has lots to learn, But then so do all of us. Yes, I know that Kill, Kill, Kill feeling, But Love, Love, Love,is a much better way to go. Been there did that, And the only one I really hurt was myself. So,PLease keep what I have said in mind when you talk to her.
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reader, flower girl +, writes (29 June 2007):
 When you are hurt you can say some really nasty things that you regret later no, matter how bad you have been treated believe me i've done it, she is not worth it if i were you just have no more contact with her full stop.
Take care.xx.
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (29 June 2007):
 Mate I wouldn't go. This girl is using you to get to your mate and it's wrong. You admit she's hurt you so just tell her the date is off.
Don't go for the revenge approach but do talk to her about how she's made you feel. Tell her you think she's pathetic if that's what you think of her. Only you now how you truly feel. Just put your point across and walk away. xxxxxx
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