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writes:elloo I have been with my boyfriend for ages now. And it's the 5th time I've dumped him and I got back with him 3 days ago and i don't love him. But if i dump him nobody will be my friend. please help me quick xxx Reply to this Question
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reader, myp  +, writes (29 June 2007):
 if they wont be your friend because you dumped your boyfriend then they're NOT REALLY YOUR FRIENDS. If you dont love him then drop him like hes hot because youll only make yourself miserable. YOu deserve someone who you love and loves you in return, someone special, so if hes not it then get out of this relationship, its not healthy.message me if you want to talk=)-Myesha
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reader, Brandi +, writes (29 June 2007):
 I agree with yummy mummy dump him. A beside who cares if you have no friends. you want friends that are there for you no matter who you are or are not dating. So dump him and find better friends then them. And get a better man.
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reader, bubbloo24  +, writes (28 June 2007):
 You can't just drag the guy along because you're afraid of what people will think.
Get it over with now so that he can recover from it quicker and if your friends go off you then they arn't understanding about the fact that you weren't in a happy relationship.
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reader, lisarocksyoursocksoff +, writes (28 June 2007):
 then they're obviously not your true friends.. and aren't you being very unfair to your boyfrienmd by constantly hurting him and even worse that he thinks you may care about himif you can't see your self falling for him in future then you need to do what is best for you two!if you're careful and gentle about teh situation, then there is no need for your 'friends' to be mad.
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reader, kenny +, writes (28 June 2007):
 Staying with him just to not lose any friends is no reason to continue this relationship. You don't love him so tell him its over and move on, its not fair on the guy if you continue to see him when you don't like him anymore. I think if no-one talks to you when you finish with him, then these people are very shallow, at least you know you did the right thing.
Good luck x
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (28 June 2007):
 If you don't love him dump him and stay away from him. You need someone in your life who makes you happy. Why will people not be your friend if you dump him? And doesn't that prove they aren't true friends? True friends would stick by you even if they don't agree with you dumping him.
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