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Archived questions from: April, 2013 (see latest in Family category)

Family: Help and advice

Why don't I want someone who actually wants me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4253 days ago

30 April 2013 (F) - Hi, I'm 21 years old and ever since I was 18, I've only had 2 serious relationships. My first relationship was abusive and controlling, my second relationship involved drugs and alcohol. My first abusive boyfriend left me for another girl and...

I'm so tired of my mother!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4251 days ago

30 April 2013 (M) - Ok well, this is pushing me to the limit I can't handle this any more I think there is some thing wrong with my mom. She wakes up at 330am every morning because she makes coffee right next to my room because the kitchen is next to my room, so ...

Should I tell my cousin I love him, or make him fall in love with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4253 days ago

30 April 2013 (F) - im a teenager, im in love with my cousin but he dosent know that. i want him to be my life partner. their family is so close to me. i tried hard to forget him, but unable to do it. i am unable to avoid him. when i see him my heart beat increases and ...

I'm married with 3 children, one of my children may belong to my lover. How can I make everyone happy? I don't want to lose my husband.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4253 days ago

30 April 2013 (F) - I got married eight years ago to a man i seriously thought was my soulmate. Shortly after our wedding he started shutting down sexually and left me wanting for more. Since that time i have had a few affairs, nothing that would threaten my emot...

Should I tell my step-cousin I'm attracted to her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4253 days ago

30 April 2013 (M) - I am sexually attracted to my step cousin and idk if I should tell her. She is 31 and I'm 23 we have been hanging out for a few years I started taking her every where because she doesn't have a car. I tell her everything now, she helped get over an ...

My siblings seem to think finding a relationship or using a vibrator will make me happy what is their problem?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4253 days ago

30 April 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have been sex free for ten years now I am not in a relationship with anyone my sex drive is shot due to being abuse by men in my life mentally and physically and I just gave sex up period right long with drinking and smoking pot .I ...

I feel too ugly to be a bride!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4253 days ago

29 April 2013 (F) - I don't want to sound conceited or like I'm being an attention seeker but I'm due to get married in 1 year and i feel as though I'm too ugly to be a bride. I hate having my photo taken and I even discussed with my fiancé about not having a ...

How can I become closer to my parents?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4253 days ago

29 April 2013 (F) - I don't feel close to my parents at all. I love them loads don't get me wrong and we have a laugh I just don't feel like I can talk to them about serious topics because they'll judge me or they'll make suggestions I maybe don't think are helpful, ...

My boyfriend/boss might be let go at work and now, he wants to officially meet my family, go out more etc., but I have some big concerns!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4253 days ago

29 April 2013 (F) - My boyfriend/boss might be let go at work and now, he wants to officially meet my family, go out more etc. No one knew about us but some did suspect a little not because we did anything but because one time, during a small meeting where it was a bit ...

Is he too busy with work, school and raising a child? Because right now I feel ignored by my boyfriend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4252 days ago

29 April 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for several months. We live about 30 miles from each other and used to see each other 2-3 times a week and we would communicate daily through text. Right now I have not seen him in two weeks and only hear fr...

I haven't told my parents about him. If I break up with him he'll tell them and I'll be homeless.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4255 days ago

28 April 2013 (F) - So I have been with my boyfriend for 2years and want to break up. If he breaks up with me that's all fine and dandy his family knows everything about us. But if I break up with him... I dont know what he would do my parents don't like him and they ...

I want to break up with my secret b/f but I'm scared he'll tell my parents and ask for his christmas gift back!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4255 days ago

28 April 2013 (F) - So I have a boyfriend of almost 2 years... He is smart funny sweet gentle loves me a lot... My parents don't like him and made us break up but we got back together and they don't know. On top of that Christmas he gave me a really nice gift that I ...

Does everything has to be "his way"? Is there anyway to get him to see reason?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4256 days ago

27 April 2013 (F) - Hello everyone, hoping to get some objective feedback. My partner and I have been together for three and a half years, but have been in a long distance relationship for the past 1 year and 8 months (approx) and we have a two year old son who live...

She thinks she's protecting me but I think she's trying to control me. What do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4256 days ago

27 April 2013 (M) - My girlfriend, my gf's sister, my brother, and a couple friends are all mutual friends. We all know each other and hanged out sometimes. We have an event planned to take pictures at a tulip field. Due to certain circumstances, my gf, my gf's sis...

Yes she is married. At the last minute she ripped up the divorce papers.How can I be friends with her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4256 days ago

27 April 2013 (M) - I’m in a sticky situation. I’m in love with a married woman and she’s my first love. It’s really hard. See they were getting divorced but still sleeping in the same house(different rooms and beds}. She had the papers and everything suit ...

I'm 30 weeks pregnant. How do I get my husband back in bed with me? He's been looking at sexy pictures of girls instead.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4252 days ago

26 April 2013 (F) - My husband and I have been married for 2 1/2 years now. I am also 30 weeks pregnant. I have only gained 18 pounds so I feel a little silly moping, but I could really use some words of encouragement. My fears began when our love making sessions...

I want to tell our parents about us dating but I know they won't approve!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3923 days ago

25 April 2013 (F) - Okay so my girlfriend and I have been together for almost two years and are very much in love. However, i'm 18 and she's 19 and it's really hard to hide this from both of our parents, as we still live with them. My parents found out about us back in ...

Going on holiday without my boyfriend - should I tell him the truth about where I'm going?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4257 days ago

25 April 2013 (F) - Am i being selfish going on holiday without my boyfriend? I'm going to London for three days next week with my mum. My boyfriend doesn't even know yet! When my boyfriend gets paid, he goes to see his friends for about three days. Sometimes less, ...

My Mom seems to want me to be more like her. But that's not me. How can I handle this problem?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4258 days ago

25 April 2013 (F) - hey aunties and uncles, it's not a relationship question, well not of the romantic kind anyway. just a quick background, As a child I wasn't very shy but as the years passed I suppose I became shy with strangers at school I wasn't bullied, ...

I'm distraught about his actions. He's been lying to me and talking to another woman on line. Do I stay quiet or confront him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4258 days ago

25 April 2013 (F) - Not long before my fiancee and I got engaged, we had a fidelity issue- on his part. It took me a long time (and I am just summing this up to keep it short) but eventually I forgave him. Its been YEARS since then but sometimes I get bitten by the b...

I'm 18 and my parents are strict. I want to get birth control but if I do my parents will judge me. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4258 days ago

24 April 2013 (F) - Okay I'm 18, and with having strict parents i sometimes feel like they don't understand me. Ever since i started dating my boyfriend i feel like he is the only one here for me. We have been together for almost a year now and we have started ...

He says he loves me, but the way he treats me, it doesn't feel like it!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4254 days ago

24 April 2013 (F) - My boyfriend tells me he loves me but his behavior suggests otherwise to me. About 2 weeks ago we got into an argument and he told me he had been wanting to break up with me since I miscarried 4 years ago. We have been together for 6 years, living ...

My fiance's sister makes my life a living hell! I don't know why or how I can get her to stop!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4257 days ago

24 April 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I are very much in love and have just got in engaged over a year ago and are getting married soon ish, and his sister has made my life a living hell since day one. She talks badly about me behind my back, I've been told she ca...

How does the average couple afford children?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4258 days ago

24 April 2013 (F) - Does anyone else worry a little that they will never be able to afford a child? I am still on the younger side so I know I have a couple of years to figure it out before my clock starts ticking, but I wonder how we will ever get there. We do okay ...

Is it ever acceptable to tell a guy that you want to have kids and not get married?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4259 days ago

24 April 2013 (F) - I'm 29-years old and have never been married and have no children. I've had long term relationships in the past (one for 4-years and one for 2-years) and I haven't really been serious with anyone in almost 6-years. Anyhow, I wouldn't say...

18 months dating and still he does not want to be intimate? How do I raise this issue without pushing him, nor seeming needy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4259 days ago

24 April 2013 (F) - So, I've been dating my boyfriend for about a year and a half now and this is my first real relationship, but I'm concerned because he doesn't seem to want to be intimate. Generally, I kiss him more than he kisses me, but when I've brought ...

My husband wants to have a baby with another woman. He's says I'm making this out to be a big deal. Am I over-reacting like he says?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4255 days ago

24 April 2013 (F) - Im 20 years old and have 2 kids. My oldest is 4 and she is from a past relationship. Im now married and we just had our son in February. Recently my husband has been talking about having a baby of his own with another woman. I thought he was k...

I went out dancing with my new girl and her sisters.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4259 days ago

24 April 2013 (M) - I went out dancing with my girlfriend and her sisters. She and I are just starting to date. Another girl come up and ask me to dance I said no out of respect but my girlfriend, half drunk said to go ahead. Does this mean that she does not care ...

To move or not to move, single mom life

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4259 days ago

24 April 2013 (F) - Hello! I am looking for advice on moving in with my boyfriend. He is 32 and i am 23. We both have elementary school age daughters. His daughter doesnt live with him now, but in two months she will,move in with him full time. When i met her she wasnt ...

Does my step-father not like me? How can we have more of a family relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4259 days ago

23 April 2013 (F) - Hello, Would you say if this attitude says that my step dad doesn't like me?: - he keeps a mental list of exactly which lights I keep on through the night and how late I go to bed after watching tv.He says I'm wasting electricity but I'm paying f...

Need help dealing with my 14 year old!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4259 days ago

23 April 2013 (F) - I need help on something...My husband passed away about 4 1/2 years ago, and I was left with 3 young children (9, 6 and 5). I ended up, out of fear of being alone, dating really fast. I got into a 3 year relationship that was not good. He was ...

Should I be upset at this financial situation with his sister? What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4259 days ago

23 April 2013 (F) - Should I be upset and what do I do ? I have been with my partner for 3.5 years and living together for 3. We have been having ups and down but recently one problem has got me to re think being with him..when we met. I was (and still am) a sing...

Life Balance. May I have some tips on how to prioritize between my school life and find time to enjoy my passion of helping others?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4260 days ago

22 April 2013 (F) - Okay. Well I have been off this site for a while, and I am coming back for a little while as I have been overloaded with work! Basically, I am 16, and I have a little bit of a problem. My GCSE's are comin...

Am I being played? I gave my last husband excuses for his behaviour, I don't want to do it again.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4261 days ago

22 April 2013 (F) - I have had two disasterous marriages with men who treated me badly. I have three lovely children all under 11 I work full time and recently bought my own house. I do want a loving meaningful relationship I am fourty and work from home on my own. I ...

How do other women handle the situation when their guy will not stop ogling other women?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4234 days ago

22 April 2013 (F) - Posting a question about ogling here. I had this ogling issue and my now ex would tell me it was nothing, that my expectations were "too high", that I would never meet a man who didn't ogle and that I "shouldn't expect him to walk around with his...

So do I still have to wait? In spite of the fact that he has now reached his marrying age?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4261 days ago

22 April 2013 (F) - we broke up recently because when we were together, we couldn't control ourselves of being so intimate. As much as possible, we don't want to have sex without getting married.. He was asking me for marriage but i refused because he's still takin...

My 12 year old daughter told me she is bisexual. I don't know how to handle this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4261 days ago

21 April 2013 (F) - HEllo,i have an 12yr old daughter who told me over this. Weekend she is bisexual she told me she have had these type of feelings since last yr.Iam totally Shock and concerned i don't know what to do or say i'd ask her have she ever been with a girl ...

I lied to hubby about child being his, marriage is unhappy and another child on the way! Please help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4262 days ago

21 April 2013 (F) - I am 35.I met my hubby 2009 through a friend. Immediately we fell in love. I have a good job. He works as shop cashier. I was abit uncomfortable and embarrassed with this, but later accepted him. He however intelligent, hardworking. He was sharing ...

My controlling Aunt wants us to change the date of our wedding. How can I deal with her reaction?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4260 days ago

21 April 2013 (F) - Recent events have upset me and dare say ruined my wedding ...Please read... My aunt (my dad’s sister) has always been a bit controlling. I remember when I was a child she'd always have tantrums and cause arguments if things didn't go her wa...

Is my boyfriend lying to me? He said I was accusing him of lying and then he gave me a sad look.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4262 days ago

21 April 2013 (F) - Back in January, I remember I was at home and my boyfriend hadn't responded to my texts for over two hours. He finally texted me back, saying he was in his aunties house visiting them. I thought it was so odd, for him to visit relatives as it is so...

My parents don't like my Bf who's older. They're suffocating me with their over protection and treating me like I'm still a child. What to do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4260 days ago

21 April 2013 (F) - I live at home still because I am in post secondary and cannot afford to live on my own and I am fortunate enough to be able to live a home for free. But my parents are extremely over protective of me. I have tried sooo many times reasonin...

He never told me earlier. Is he really gay? If so , why be with a woman to begin with? What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4263 days ago

21 April 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years and no sex! He was in prison for 15 years before we meet and while he has never told me he had sex or was raped I have a strange feeling. He did try once to have sex with me the first year and I...

I broke her heart with the high school thing. How do I tell her that I did so bad they took me off of aid? There's no easy way to tell her and I've held off for months.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4262 days ago

21 April 2013 (F) - Hello everyone, My relationship with my mother has always been strained. We never do the traditional hug/kiss/I love you mom! thing. I just never understood it, however, I do understand that she cares for me and wants the best for me. I want to ma...

How do you help someone who doesn't want help?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4262 days ago

20 April 2013 (F) - My sister is in her mid-20s. Five years ago, she was in a relationship for 3 months. When it ended, she fell into a depression, which she has allowed herself to remain in ever since. This means that she has spent 20 times more grieving the end of ...

Are there others who have no family? This is my experience.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4263 days ago

20 April 2013 (F) - Hi, this is not really a relationship question as such, but it does really impact onto relationships I think. Is there anyone out there who has no family? I have no family as such - I was estranged from my immediate family in my early twenties b...

Feel uncomfortable and insecure around my bi step-sister

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4263 days ago

20 April 2013 (F) - Hi do just recently I found out my stepsister is coming down for summer . She has only told me and a couple friends that she is bi ( but more like lesbian if you ask me ) not to be crude . Any ways so she I'ma one month older than me. I just think ...

How do I stop this crush? Met him at AA meeting, but he's way older than me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4261 days ago

20 April 2013 (F) - Have a crush on a guy at an Alcoholics Anonymous meeting! I'm 18 and recently got out of rehab about a months ago and started going to the local AA meeting. AA meetings is the last place I thought I'd devolp a crush on someone. But for the past 3 ...

Does my husband not even care enough about me to answer these questions?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4263 days ago

20 April 2013 (F) - i asked my husband, does he think i am beautiful? He said he didn't know. He never looks at me that way. When i asked him what he likes about me, he said he doesn't know. What do this mean or what should i do? ...

Am I crazy to think the man I"m dating is secretly having an affair with a married woman?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4263 days ago

20 April 2013 (F) - I started dating a man 53 whom is newly divorced few days back in Feb 2013. Yet he is always talking about this woman whom helps him with his dad. My guy's Dad lives with him. The woman who helps is also married and is a co-worker of his. This ...

I feel like I'm second best in all this, to him. He chooses her over me. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4263 days ago

19 April 2013 (F) - I'm in trouble I need help...my boyfriend and me had a girl as a friend but after I trusted her with everything..with the first bump (he thought I was cheating) this while I couldn't even handle any guy even relatives next to me..and she told him ...