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female
age
22-25,
anonymous
writes:Hi do just recently I found out my stepsister is coming down for summer . She has only told me and a couple friends that she is bi ( but more like lesbian if you ask me ) not to be crude . Any ways so she I'ma one month older than me. I just think I will feel very uncomfortable doing normal stuff I do when she's not here. Like how I get dressed in my room I have only done my top whe she was here once and I had on a cami underneath but now that she expressed her feelings for me saying she likes me and I'm totally straight. I don't really feel comfortable doing things like sitting together on the couch who knows what she'll do if she gets close to me. But I need help what do I do to not feel so uncomfortable and insecure around her ???
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reader, CMMP +, writes (21 April 2013):
Just treat the sexual situation as if she was a boy.
Don't change in front her, don't cuddle, etc. But there's no reason to believe she'll try anything simply because she's bi. If she says she likes you just tell her you're not attracted to women or relatives.
Many people seem to think gay people are incapable of controlling themselves around people of the same sex. It's not true any more than straight people can't control themselves around the opposite sex.
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