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Archived questions from: November, 2011 (see latest in Family category)

Family: Help and advice

My story of how karma really can bite you. And why empathy is important in relationships

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4769 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - Well basically I am 14 years old and i would like to share a story which really really changed my way that I view the world and why you shouldn't take people for granted. All names included in this stroy are made up ones. I had a friend n...

Will the relationship ever work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4769 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - me and my boyfriend was together over a year he broke up with me monday cause the same girl that has been giving ur drama and touble since the day she found out we first met. he said he was tired of the drama and he was tried of me listening to the ...

I think my crazy sister in law wants my husband!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4277 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - I think my sister in law is trying to destroy my marriage because she is jealous of me and hates me because she wants her brother, my husband. She is constantly putting me down but playing it off as joke so if I say anything it will seem as if I'm ...

My boyfriends mother is too protective and manipulative!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4753 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - Hey, aunts and uncles. I'm stuck and unsure of whether to feel upset or if i should try to be more understanding and compassionate in the current situation I am in with my boyfriend and his mother. Any opinions and advice are well appreciated! ...

Can anyone advise on what we are doing wrong and how to get back on track?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - Hi All, I am in dyer straits... I feel I have no where to turn to or have a shoulder to cry on... I have been with my husband since I am 17. We are together a total of 11 years and married for 3.5 years. He lost his mother to cancer at a young age ...

I am interested in a 17 year old girl and her mother is encouraging us to have sex! Why??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

30 November 2011 (M) - I am interested in a 17 year old girl who seems to like me but is a little reserved.She is an only child. Her mother is encouraging the relationship actively. She even told me that sex was okay if I loved her. What is mother up to? I find it a ...

Her sister saw us!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

30 November 2011 (M) - We were and having sex in her bedroom when her older sister walked in on us. She stood there a while. When I got off she must have seen everyting. She then walked out. My gf was a little shy but I got a kick out. What do we say to her now?...

My boyfriend is abusive. Help, what do I do? Because I'm falling hard for my boyfriend's brother.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - Ok. I am in a situation that I really badly need help with. I have been dating my current boyfriend for 2 years now off and on. The first year was terrible. I always caught him talking to his ex girlfriend. He was telling her he loved her and that...

Can someone give me some techniques to just accept compliments with good grace and not feel so undeserving and overwhelmed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

30 November 2011 (?) - I have a really difficult time accepting compliments, and people think I'm stuck up because of it or I seek attention - but really with anything, grades, comments from a professor regarding a great paper I wrote - it all overwhelms me so much and ...

How do people cope with multiple family pressures and still cope? Where does one go to for helpd?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - After rewriting this 5 times I've just decided to be blunt. I'm feeling really down. It's been gradually progressing for a while now, starting off when I lost my nan 4 years ago. I was really close to her and I was devastated but I've never been...

I only lied to avoid a fight. She's aggressive and doesn't trust me. Should I break if off with her?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4744 days ago

30 November 2011 (?) - I'm an insurance agent by trade and I sat down with one of my girlfriends friends. I sold her a policy. But recently my girlfriend called her up, and asked her if anything is going on between us. I think it's inappropriate, along with her constan...

Am I being cold-hearted?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

29 November 2011 (M) - I have been married for over ten years and have 2 kids. For the last two years I have been unhappy in the marriage. When I started thinking about divorce, I went to my wife and would tell her things that were bothering me and that i would like to ...

I'm secretly dating my best friends brother...what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - I'm confused on quite a few levels. I've been secretly seeing my best friends brother for 4 months now. She knows I like him and that he likes me, yet has no idea we have been seeing each other. I have poked fun at the idea of dating him, and it s...

Nervous about going to my boyfriend's works Christmas party...how do I stop worrying?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4771 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - So my new boyfriend has invited me to his annual works Christmas party at an elegant hotel. Not only am i meeting his friends and co-workers, im also meeting his family. Only thing is, he hasnt told his family yet that we've been dating and wants to ...

How do I ask her out? And how do I keep my family out of it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4771 days ago

29 November 2011 (M) - So there is this girl I like at school(I am in the 8th grade) and I would like to ask her out but I have no idea how to do it or where to go. We are both not very popular so I'm not going after some one out of my league.I also worry how my family ...

I don't want my children going where I can't get them back!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

28 November 2011 (F) - Hi, I could do with some advice. My ex husband and I have been seperated for almost 4 years. We have 2 beautiful children together and things are now much friendlier than they were when we first split. My husbands long term girlfriend ( ...

I am totally messed up when it comes to relationships/sex/dating.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

28 November 2011 (F) - Hi! I really need some advice and input from all of you wise people out there! :) I am 19. I've been in two relationships. The first one was at 15 and lasted for 2 months. The second one was at 17 and lasted a month. I dumped both of them. I ...

Controlling mother of adult son

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

28 November 2011 (F) - I am dating a man who is 23 and I am 31, I am divorced with 3 kids and he has never been married and has no kids. We both know this is not the ideal situation and neither expected this to last but after 2 years we are very much in love and can even ...

My mum is very controlling and makes my boyfriend feel like she approve of our relationship, how do we overcome this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

28 November 2011 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend for over a year, the relationship occurred after a strong friendship and we are very much in love. We are both in our 20s, graduated, stable jobs, good career prospects and my boyfriend has recently moved out of his own ...

My wife called me weird for shaving my pubes. I would like to try some new things. I am incompatible with my wife.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

28 November 2011 (M) - Hi, I am a male, 51, married with 2 children (early teens). I am a late developer sexually (I have a tumor of the pituitary gland which slowed me down for years - it was not discovered until I was early 30's although it had been there for many y...

Do I stay a friend to him or do I let him go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4773 days ago

27 November 2011 (F) - I dont know if I should stay freinds with my ex stressing me out some he is a demanding type and that is why I asked him to move out we have not been broke up long someone mentioned compromise has to be in a realtionship and to me he aint about ...

Family keep pushing us together. Yet I suspect he's Gay. Why does he say he'll ask me out when I'm "Free"? I am single.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

27 November 2011 (F) - So there's this guy right. He's such a great guy, we met actually a year ago yesterday, but I've only seen him a couple of times.. I get really nervous around him.. Why I don't know but I do.. His mom and my sister are friends. Since the first ti...

Worried about my underage son's out-of-control behavior and overly active sexual activities

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4774 days ago

27 November 2011 (F) - im very worried about my son mason hes 15, i had him when i was about 16 and i dont want him to have a baby so young i want him to live his life first!!! he brings his girlfriend over to our house all the time shes beautiful and shes got an amazing ...

I'm not sure how I feel about dating someone who has children, but I already am in that situation!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4774 days ago

26 November 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am 24 and my boyfriends 36. we have been together for 2 years and like every relationship have had our ups and downs. He has a 12 year old daughter who is real nice girl. We live in New York and her mom lives in Florida. This Th...

I have hero worshipped him for years.Shall I just give up before making a fool of myself?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4774 days ago

26 November 2011 (F) - I have always been friendly with a man 10 years older than me. I really wish he would see me as more than a friend. He is a single parent with a mixed race son. That is not be a problem to me. When I first got to talk proper with him, he did say ...

How can I avoid an Arranged Marriage? I do not wish it to go ahead. What should be my actions and behaviour in this situation?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4774 days ago

26 November 2011 (F) - I am getting married as per my parents wish to a guy who is a liar, unattractive, no mannerisms, hypocrite, etc. Worst I get shivering spine when I think I will have to go to bed with him, for which he is eagerly waiting. He thinks himself very ove...

Can't get alone with my girlfriend, how can I?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4774 days ago

25 November 2011 (M) - Hello. I have an issue. My girlfriend and I have been dating for a while and we very mych love each other. We are sexually active and have been for a month or two. Now I'm sure you understand that two people in love like to be alone every now and ...

Is boarding school the right thing in this circumstance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4775 days ago

25 November 2011 (M) - Recently my wife and eldest daughter died in a car crash and i was left on my own with a 14 yr old daughter. her mum used to work at her current school and her sister went to the sixth form there and shes told me that she dosent want to go there ...

Should I wait like a lady for my boyfriend to pick me up like my mum says?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4775 days ago

25 November 2011 (?) - My bf of 2 years has night shifts and at the end of the week, I usually drive over to his house and wake him up because he is capable of sleeping till night time (cause of his night shifts)... Well I never saw anything wrong with that cause if we go ...

How should I tell my parents I want a tattoo without them getting mad?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4775 days ago

25 November 2011 (F) - Hello aunts and uncles My national exams are ending soon and I wanted to get a tattoo to remember the long journey I've been through throughout the course of my studies before I enter university. I've always liked tattoos and I guess it's a good w...

How can I best support her? She says she feels smothered. Now she only wants companionship.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4776 days ago

25 November 2011 (M) - I'm a 56 year old male in a relationship with a 54 year old divorced women. She was raped repeatedly when she was 15 , by her step father. She also suffered other trauma through the years. Ex husband hit her with a belt, ex boy friend infected...

I feel as though he is just using me but I want to make things work!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4776 days ago

25 November 2011 (F) - Should i move on? ignore it? or just go with the flow? here's the situation.. My boyfriend and i have been going out for 4 years (on and off) during the time that we broke up we had other partners but it did'nt last long because we real...

Should I not come first since I am his finace? He wants to see his relatives instead of me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4776 days ago

24 November 2011 (F) - My fiance is deployed at the moment. He got deployed in June and he leaves to go on his r and r in January. He is supposed to be coming to see me and my son for the 2 weeks, but now he is talking about going to Africa(where he is originally from) to ...

No emotional bond in my marriage and my in laws hate me. Any advice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

24 November 2011 (F) - i have been married for 3 yrs with 12 month old baby girl, my inlaws hates me and my husband is not standing for me,he's always on the side of his family whenever we traveled to the family house,the last time we traveled i was humiliated, rejected ...

Leaving my whole family behind for marriage. How to deal with this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4775 days ago

24 November 2011 (F) - My soon to be husband is English. I am Australian. We met in the UK whilst i was living there for 2 years. In a few months we will be getting married and i will be permanently moving to the UK for the rest of my life (in theory, life changes of ...

My gran has cancer and I want her to be around to see me get married and have kids....should I talk to my partner about getting married sooner?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4776 days ago

24 November 2011 (F) - Just wondering if others can offer some advice. My gran, who i am really close to is in her 80s. I have always had this wish that she could be around to see me marry and provide her a great grandchild. WHen my grandfather passed away, it made me...

What is the main cause of juvenile delinquency and drug addiction?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4776 days ago

24 November 2011 (F) - What is the most common cause,in families of juvenile delinquency and drug addiction? My sister kids are all dropped out of school, and into drugs and crime. It's a real frightening situation from the outside. I'm talking about serious drugs......

We can never plan anything but his ex can!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

23 November 2011 (F) - I have a really small question that is out of my depth so wanted ppls opinions please! My fella and I have been together 4 months. He has children with his ex and we have made sure that everything stays exactly the same (ie..he takes them footb...

Finally decided to take control over my health but people around me are not helping!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

23 November 2011 (F) - Hi everyone, I was wondering if you could help with with an issue I have been having. I have finally decided to take control over my health, and wish to start eating much better, exercising, with the goal of getting fitter and losing weight. ...

How can I make this easier? I feel empty and alone when I'm not with him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

23 November 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and i have a 4 month old daughter together. we have been with each other every day for 3 months. we see each other every day, but when i'm not with him i miss him and want to be with him i feel empty and alone. how can i make this ...

Husband expects me to take his side and cut daughter out of lives. I can't do it!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

22 November 2011 (F) - My husband and I have been married for 16 years and have 2 children together. My daughter is 19 and my son is 14. For as long as I can remember, my husband has always been mean to my daughter. Recently, she has moved out of the house with her ...

How can I help my sister?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

22 November 2011 (F) - I'm a girl age twenty three and me and my family been thought a pretty rough time. Me and my sis was abused by a family member and when it all came out this person then ended their life. We had counseling, but now my little sis is going off the ...

How can I become emotionally stronger?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4778 days ago

22 November 2011 (F) - My boyfriend advices me to be emotionally strong because of my past reactions to many situations.and whenever i have a problem that I share with him (about any difficulty outside our relationship or a problem I have related to him) ..he begins to ...

If my friend never pays heed to my advice, then why does she ask?? She hangs out with me when her B/f dumps her, and ignores me when they get back together!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

22 November 2011 (?) - I have a female friend, whose boyfriend is best friends with my boyfriend. My boyfriend and I have a healthier relationship than they do in that we give eachother loads of space. They dont go to college so they are together everyday, practically ...

Why is she pushing me away? Why is she seeking me out only to reject me again? My offer is love and stability

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4775 days ago

22 November 2011 (M) - My Ex Gf and I have lived together for 18 months. We’ve supported ourselves this entire time, paying the electric bills, insurance, groceries, etc We broke up a month ago. For domestic reasons she has chosen to still live with me, despite the ...

My teen daughter is staying with her gran to finish her studies. Now she does not want to come home. How do I resolve this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4778 days ago

22 November 2011 (F) - Hi everyone We relocated to a new city... My mom is currently staying with my 14 year old daughter in our house just till the end of this school year, then she will have to join us in the new city. I think the move is constantly on my daughter's mi...

I'm having a hard time with my family and need some advice.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4779 days ago

21 November 2011 (F) - hey...i need some family advice :) i have had a bad past life with my family but i have put all that behind me well i thought i had :\ today i saw my brother again after a year because of my controlling grand mother (dads mum) she stop my brother ...

What should I write in my cousin's wedding card?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4779 days ago

21 November 2011 (F) - Hi all. Well i dont have any relationship problem....my cousin is getting married this weekend and i wana write something funny, something unqiue, something that she will remember her whole life and laugh in her wedding card. Can you all please help ...

Starting over again. Running out of time to have a family. Will men be put off by my situation when I start dating?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4779 days ago

21 November 2011 (F) - I am 39 (40 next spring) and childless. I have just come out of a 10 year marriage which pretty much destroyed my sense of self worth / esteem. I am still a little raw but trying to move on. My hopes and dreams for a happy family life with a lovi...

He's mean and controlling and my children don't like him. Will he revert to the same monster again if we purchase a home together?

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 4401 days ago

21 November 2011 (F) - I have posted on here so many times as I dont have anyone to talk to. What would you do in the following scenario? I am on the verge of buying a house with my second husband who I ended up having a seperate house from for the last 4 years as we had ...