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female
age
30-35,
*hiny
writes: i have been married for 3 yrs with 12 month old baby girl, my inlaws hates me and my husband is not standing for me,he's always on the side of his family whenever we traveled to the family house,the last time we traveled i was humiliated, rejected and dejected. things were like that when i was pregnant but i thought that he will change after seeing his first baby, but NO the whole thing is geting worse. he behaves as if we(my baby and i) illitate him. is this what marriage is all about? the truth is that i dont love him i married him out of frustration(pls dont judge me) and i found out that he doesn't love me either,there is no emotional attachememt, we are not compartible at all. i'm a graduate in my late 20's looking for a job, immediatly i find one i will walk away and move on with my life,i have made up my mind or what do you think?
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reader, chiny +, writes (28 November 2011):
chiny is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you all for your advice,i really appreciate. love you all.
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reader, Tbosse +, writes (25 November 2011):
You deserve love and happiness. move on and goodluck!
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reader, Starlights +, writes (25 November 2011):
Marriage should be ultimately be a loving bond, of course challenges are normal in any marriage.
You say your husband doesnt love you.
If neither of you love each other and cant work things out AFTER talking about it, it time to move on for your own happiness and for the sake of your baby.
I hope this helps!
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reader, moon river +, writes (25 November 2011):
you must know exactly what you need to do but something is holding you back from admitting it from yourself,
you need to move on you deserve true love
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2011): Yep. Marriage should be about love and happiness. Not abuse and bull crap.
Move on!
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reader, natasia +, writes (24 November 2011):
Yes, move on, move on. Get away. This is nonsense. Life is too short. Find someone you love.
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