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Archived questions from: August, 2010 (see latest in Faded love category)

Faded love: Help and advice

I'm struggling to love him! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - hi i cud do with some advice ive been with my partner 15 yr have 3 gorgous boys hes a lovely guy 13 yr age gap never bothered us the problem is i love him cos hes the dad to my boys and that will never change the thing is im not in love with him any ...

How do I get this cold and distant man out of my head, even while he's visiting our newborn?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5226 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - i dated this guy on and off for 2 years... i got pregnant and he left me. he said he was only with me for the sex and said he loved me because he felt pity... he always said he wanted to be there for the baby.. the thing is, i'm about to give birth ...

Should I break up with my clingy girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

29 August 2010 (M) - So, I've been with my girlfriend for nearly 2 years now and I'm starting to wonder if i want to be with her anymore. When we first started dating we would spend every single day together and I eventually started staying at her house every night. I ...

Do I still love her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

28 August 2010 (M) - I don't think I love my girlfriend anymore. I'm 21 and she is 20, we have been together nearly 2 years and its been good.. but lately i have been feeling like i'm missing out. She is my first serious relationship, I only just started really e...

I need some relationship support and advice, please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

26 August 2010 (F) - My bf and I have been living together for 6 months now. We seldom fight unless we have been drinking. It has gotten to the point that when we do drink, I prepare for the worst and hope for the best. A few nights a go we went out with some coworkers ...

Is my wife using me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5232 days ago

25 August 2010 (M) - i have split from my wife a couple of months ago, we where together for 18 years. the last two weeks we have got on great and i stayed over in the family home a few times. she has told me that she wants to get back together in a few months. now she ...

Does familiarity kill desire?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5232 days ago

25 August 2010 (F) - Do all men lose desire for their partner when they've been together for a while? Does familiarity kill desire? It is my dream to have a relationship with someone, that lasts, with someone who I can connect intellectually and emotionally with, sh...

I've started thinking of my partner more as a relative than a mate

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5222 days ago

25 August 2010 (M) - I have been with my partner for over 19 years. At the moment I am very confused. Our dog passed away unexpectedly a month ago which has had a massive impact on me. I truly belive he represented a child to us and help the relationship ...

I'm feelings uncomfortable in my own home! why wont he leave?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

24 August 2010 (F) - my partner has a tendancy when we argue to be really verbal to me. after coming back from a holiday we hardly spoke in the car which we were in for 8 hours! it drove me mental and ended up in an argument. the next thing i know he was in my face ...

I don't feel anything for the man I used to love.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

24 August 2010 (M) - Hey there, I've been dating a guy for about two years now, and we've been engaged for one year and a few months. We were very happy when we first met each other and continued to be happy for the first year; however, now that I'm in college for m...

Why won't he leave?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

23 August 2010 (F) - My husband is pleasantly nice, but has nothing to say to me, he is flirty to younger women and yet he denies it if i comfront him... He says I am crazy!!! We both after 20 years of marraige got verbally abusive, for me its for attention, accordin...

I don't love my girlfriend but she is falling for me more and more, how do I tell her I just want to be friends without breaking her heart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

23 August 2010 (M) - I have dated my girlfriend for about 10 months now as my first serious relationship, but I don't feel like I love her. I don't see any other girls as attractive at the moment but everytime we meet she just falls for me more and more. I just do...

Is this a good enough reason to break up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

22 August 2010 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for about 4 years now and plans for our wedding have been going much slower than I wud have wanted them to go. It has affected my attitude towards my boyfriend and he has noticed the change in me. I feel frustrated, ...

10 years together but now want to split from him... but how?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

22 August 2010 (F) - I have had a relationship with my partner for ten years and in that time we have had ups and downs, i don't want to be with him anymore, he will not marry me, he tells everyone that it embarrasses me, i've moved away from him hoping that will stop ...

Hubby is turned off by me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

22 August 2010 (F) - Mod Note: Titled by Original Poster I have been married for 24 yrs. We have always been able to laugh at the same things but we don't see eye to eye on a lot of the important things. I'm a saver, he's a spender. I like to plan and make list...

When he does things for me I don't get excited anymore

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

21 August 2010 (F) - What's wrong with me?? Ive been with my bf for 5 years and although we've been having small issues recently were still very much in love. However whenever he does something nice for me i dont get excited like i used to. We went out to an expensive ...

I've worked hard to change to get him back, how do I show him things will be different?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5237 days ago

19 August 2010 (F) - ive been with my ex fiance for 4 years, engaged for 3 and living together for 18 months. we were really happy before we moved in but after things went wrong. i started treating him badly unintentionally. i drifted from my friends and felt very down ...

I feel trapped and unloved, and I have no-one to turn to

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5238 days ago

19 August 2010 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend for just over 8months now and it doesnt seem like he cares or loves me anymore and i dont no what to do. he starts an argument with me he doesnt no how to talk in our arguments, he says im the one that doesnt care anymore ...

Seven year relationship... now what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

19 August 2010 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for close to 7 years. I know we both care for each other a lot. We've had our share of ups and downs, but for some reason, this time of "down" doesn't seem like it's going away... There's been times throughout our 7...

Do I break it off or hold on and see what happens???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5239 days ago

18 August 2010 (F) - My boyfriend of over a year has recently lost his brother. Those two were tied at the hips and it's really taken a tole on him. His brother left behind a wife and two children. Him and his brother are the only two siblings. It's really a tragity. ...

Has my relationship ran it's course?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5239 days ago

18 August 2010 (F) - Hi, my problem is I'm 25 years old and don't know how much more I can take of my relationship. I have been with this guy 6 and half yrs, he is good looking, got great job and aspirations, but that's it now, I don't really know what else there is. ...

Faded love. How do I end it once and for all?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5239 days ago

18 August 2010 (M) - Okay, I'll keep this short, I've came here before for advice regarding the breaking up with my girlfriend. We are still together, It has been very rocky so far, and it has gotten to the point where I feel like I have not got the same feelin...

I think I may have made the wrong choice here...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5239 days ago

18 August 2010 (M) - I am normally really good with stuff like this if I'm not the one in need but now I am. I have been with a girl for going on three years now and I was pretty sure I was in love with her but we have been stuck in a rut for quite some time. It seems ...

Do I deserve better?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5240 days ago

17 August 2010 (F) - I don't know what to do. My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years. Our 5 year anniversary meant nothing to him. He told me that. He never even remembered even though he knew it was a big deal to me. I'm going back to Uni soon and he's never ...

He might be losing his love for me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5240 days ago

17 August 2010 (F) - I've been with my bf for over 2months now and its been great yer we agrue and that but we don let it affect are realtionship. anyway ive had cancer for over 3months and yes he knows but thats not the problem. the other he sent my friend a text tell ...

He would rather watch porn than spend time with me and his new baby!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5240 days ago

17 August 2010 (F) - I have been with fiancee for a little bir. I am 22 and he is 27. All my past relationships i was either cheated on or abused. I didnt think good guys existed, but when i got with current bf, he showed me what true love,i still have trust issues ...

I haven't spoken to my BF in 3 weeks. What to do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

17 August 2010 (F) - Hi everyone, I've never done this before. I'm not sure what to do anymore. I have lots of friends and the few I have told - i have trusted their opinion but i would like to hear more....opinions. My boyfriend of 8 Months has recently 'disappeare...

Seem to have lost the spark after 2 years of dating. Is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5240 days ago

16 August 2010 (M) - hey everyone, So here's the deal. Me and my girlfriend have been dating 2 years now and I guess that the "spark" is kinda gone but we still love each other. Is this normal after a couple years? Please let me know ya'lls opinions. Thanks...

I am willing to do anything to make him happy so that he can return the favor

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

14 August 2010 (F) - i recently posted the question: Why do men stop trying once the relationship is no longer brand new? i got a few replies and one of them stated that this works both ways meaning women can also stop putting in the effort after being in a relation...

Help! I need help with my marriage!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

13 August 2010 (F) - Please, please could someone help me? I have been in a relationship with my husband for 11 years and married for 5. He has always had difficulties - he doesn't like watching me eat or drink, he doesn't want to sleep in the same room as me bec...

19 months and I cant deal with it much longer!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5245 days ago

11 August 2010 (M) - hi, I've been with my girlfriend for 19 months now, and lately i have been going off her. she is aggresive at times and she goes crazy at the slightest thing e.g sniffing, coughing. i do love her but i think im going off her, i dont know what to do. ...

Please help with my wifes sex drive!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5246 days ago

11 August 2010 (M) - [MOD NOTE: Op's Original Title] I am now 4 months into marriage and I feel lost and depressed over my wife’s lack of sex drive. We have been together for 6 years and we have been battling her dwindling sex drive for the last two years. She started ...

We got back together and he's gone cold and unloving, what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5246 days ago

10 August 2010 (F) - Hello all,I wonder if you could throw some light on my situation. I have been seeing a nice guy for coming up to three months now. Anyway , we had quite a bad fall out four or five weeks back which was mostly my doing, and now we have kind of got ...

Can a cheat ever be trusted?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5246 days ago

10 August 2010 (M) - I suspect I’m setting myself up for something of a beating here, but such is life.... To sum up the situation, some time over the next couple of months I will be leaving my wife. There are numerous good reasons for this, her lack of support,...

My girlfriend and I hardly ever see each other but she says she still loves me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5232 days ago

10 August 2010 (F) - I do not understand my girl any longer. we live in the same neighborhood we don't really see each other in person. we only talk on phone. anytime we meet and I ask if she truly luvs me the response is always yes. Should I quit the relation...

How to fall in love with my husband again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

10 August 2010 (F) - How to fall in love with my husband again? We've been married for 5 years, and we have 3.5 y.o. daughter. About 2 years ago, I've met a guy on my friend's b-day party. All sudden I started to have feeling for him, so did he. We would chat online a...

Is there any hope for me? I feel like I'm never going to get over this heartbreak

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5247 days ago

10 August 2010 (M) - I just don't know what's wrong with me anymore. Almost 5 years ago, I had (still have) a unrequited crush on a girl. Now, not just any girl. She was different. After getting to know her, I thought about her all the time. Everytime I saw her, s...

Ambivalence

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

9 August 2010 (M) - Dear cupid, I'm quite confused and ambivalent right now regarding the relationship with my girlfriend, and I would like some advice. I met her back in 2006. Before that, she used to live in a different city but her parents asked her to move so...

Did my boyfriend dump me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

8 August 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid Me and my bf are dating for the past 6 months and we were close friends before that. Today he asked me to call him at a particular time since he was going out with his friends. We had a fight in the morning and i called him before t...

I still love her but I'm not sure she love's me! Where do I go from here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5248 days ago

8 August 2010 (M) - im 41yr's old my girfriend is 35 yr's old. she broke up with me yesterday. im unemployed right now. she's not. i am very stressed out and are sex life has really dropped. i told her my mind is else where and i haven't been in the mood. very stressed ...

I feel let down by the woman I left my family for

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

8 August 2010 (M) - Dear all, Its a painful story.I have a girlfriend and for last two years we were dating. I left everything for my GF- my family, children. Now they are far away from me and never can be reunited. I did all this by trusting her love, I was a pu...

He said he loved me but then he ended the relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

8 August 2010 (F) - I have had this man on my mind for 15 years we met briefly back then and i was obsessed with him. he had just met someone else who he went to have a daughter with and he adores her. I wrote him a letter asking him to phone me when my marriage...

We were supposed to get married, but instead we drifted apart.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

6 August 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I were together for about 5 years (we study abroad and lived together for 1 year but our parents didn't know because we are christian orthodox and his father is a priest and very strict and wouldn't approve). At the end of the s...

Would you contact/meet your first love? After a long time apart?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5247 days ago

6 August 2010 (M) - [OP Original title] Hi there, A General Question. Given the chance, how many of you would contact/meet up with yr 1st Love....and would you do it if you were married/in a realtionship? Cheers ...

Why have my feelings for my girlfriend suddenly changed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5252 days ago

5 August 2010 (M) - I love my girlfriend but now my feelings for her have changed, i am no more enjoying our relationship what is the problem....

Seperated from husband but still love him and want him back. Suggestions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5251 days ago

5 August 2010 (F) - Hi there. My husband doesn't love me anymore, or just can't say it. We have been married for 7 years, but have been separated for about 9 months. We spend time together, as we have 2 children. We are still sleeping together, and we don't live ...

I'm confused, is he playing head games?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

4 August 2010 (?) - My boyfriend(30) and I(25) have been together for almost a year now. We have been living together for the past 7 months. He seperated from his wife over a year ago and has just finalized his divorce at the beginning of summer. Yay! However, I have ...

Am I losing interest in my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

4 August 2010 (F) - OK my boyfriend and I have been together for around six months now. We are both from different countries and met as exchange students. Now we are back in our own countries and have been apart for two months and will see each other next in Oct. ...

We have run out of things to talk about and now it feels like he doesn't love me like he did before!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5254 days ago

4 August 2010 (F) - Ok to begin i met a guy last June 7,2010 and he is so sweet very loving and thoughtful. At that time i feel in love with him. after 5 days he sent me a Love card and small beanie bear and he became my boyfriend we chat and talked a lot everyday. ...

Should I tell him about all the problems I feel are in our relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5233 days ago

3 August 2010 (F) - i'm in love with my friend, that i meet year 2007, but before we dont have any afair, coz we only friends, and i got broke up that time, but he likes me a lot, and last year 2010 we meet again in the phillippines, i never thought that i will fall...