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writes:I've been with my bf for over 2months now and its been great yer we agrue and that but we don let it affect are realtionship. anyway ive had cancer for over 3months and yes he knows but thats not the problem. the other he sent my friend a text tell her that he still has feelings for his ex so i talk to him about it and we sorted it. then 2weeks later he comes online to me telling theres this girl hes been mates with for sometime and shes got the same personality as me and hes starting to have feelings in his stomach when hes around her and shes already taken. i spoke to him about it and we sorted it. but now im worried that he will do stuff behind my back or like someone else or have feelings for someone else. also i get the feeling his losing love me and i dont want to lose him butt in away i want him to be happy. all these things are going around my head and its not really helping my cancer either. please i need some adicvexxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2010): I know how you feel, but how i see it as is its best not to have any contact with an ex when your in a relationship. It just makes things much harder and it creates problems. As for him he told you how he felt but do you really want to be with someone that is going to start having feelings for every girl that has some of your qualities, when you love someone you love them completely no just part of them. And if he sees some parts of you in some other ppl then thats no love. I do believe that he will continue to have feelings for other girls or crushes. You can tlk to him about how you feel and you will know in your heart if he is trustworthy or even worth your time.
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reader, Duckiies +, writes (17 August 2010):
 First off, I hope you can cure your cancer.Best of luck with that.I will pray for you.
Second, To be honest, guys are unpredictable sometimes.. they do stupid shit all the time. So. the only thing is to talk to him and straight things out.I Know this stuff. Im a jerk. He probably still likes you but you gotta realize things people change and people's feelings do as well. I hate to admit that but its true.
I HATE IT When girls just lost feeling for me and dump me.
It kills me inside all the time. I know you trying everything to make it last. In a relationship, there must be 50-50 commitment if its 90-10 commitment it wont work out and soon break up..
best of luck
duckiies
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2010): He sounds like an ass.
I hope that you get rid of him, and I would say that whether you are ill or not. No man (or woman) is worth being messed about by in this way - either he likes you and wants to see how things progress as a couple with you, or he doesn't. He's just toying with you while he checks if there is anyone on the market he might like better. If not, you'll do. His behaviour isn't a judgment on your worth - you can and will do better - someone will come along who loves you and wants you as their number one.
The fact that you are ill makes it even more important that you don't let this drag on with him messing you about. He isn't worth your energy. Invest that energy in getting well. I wish you success and speedy recovery with your treatment x
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