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I think I may have made the wrong choice here...

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Question - (18 August 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 18 August 2010)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I am normally really good with stuff like this if I'm not the one in need but now I am. I have been with a girl for going on three years now and I was pretty sure I was in love with her but we have been stuck in a rut for quite some time. It seems like things are going great for a bit but then it takes a turn for the worse. It happens over and over again. So I'm lost there and don't know what to do. To make matters worse I recently started to talk to another girl who I met way before I met the girl I'm with now. And the only reason me and the other girl aren't together now is because she was in the same situation I am in now. Once I met the girl I am with now, it was almost instant attraction and it wasn't long before we started dating. But this whole time I have been thinking of the other girl. And now that we are talking again, I just don't know what to do. I think I have made the wrong choice but I'm not sure. What should I do?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2010):

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Thank you, but I have been working on that for a while now :(. Last night my girlfriiend went to a friends house and had a lesbian experience with several other girls. A long time ago I told her that I really don't care if something like that happens, but for some reason it is really bugging me. Should I trust her?

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A male reader, Cerberus_Raphael Sweden +, writes (18 August 2010):

Cerberus_Raphael agony auntWork on your current relationship until you're sure there's no hope for it. If you feel strongly about this other girl then you should just break it off with your current girlfriend.

I hope that helps.

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