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Archived questions from: September, 2007 (see latest in Faded love category)

Faded love: Help and advice

After 30 years he says he no longer loves me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6260 days ago

30 September 2007 (F) - What do you do when after 30 years of being married he says he no longer loves me but I still love him? ...

Should I stay with my wife or go with the woman who has always been there for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6261 days ago

30 September 2007 (M) - I have a situation that i think if i talked about it maybe it might help. I got married in 96 to a woman i thought was everything to me,she had a child of her own from a previous relationship. i didn't mind that at all. We had our 1st child a year ...

We broke up and now we're trying again. But I don't know if I really love him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6260 days ago

30 September 2007 (F) - Hey, A year and eight months ago I started going out with a boy and after a month we were both in love with each other. We lasted for a year and a four months and we split up because we were arguing. We were both in the middle of exams and to be ...

He abuses me and loves me? I love him, is he ever going to change?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6247 days ago

30 September 2007 (F) - ok. so here is the deal. i've been with this kidd for one year nd he's always lieing to me, he is so jealous, he hit me before, mentally abuse me, hurt me verbelly and physically but i know that he's crazy about me. he's in love with me and he would ...

I find myself feeling pathetic and depressed because of her changeful ways. Her mood changes so easily without explanations.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6260 days ago

29 September 2007 (M) - hi, ive been with my girlfriend for 15 months. i love her very much but her mood towards me can change soo easily, i dont even have to do anything. one day she can be passionate towards me then the next day she can be incredibly distant like i ...

Is he trying to get out of the relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

29 September 2007 (F) - I think my relationship has run its course, though I'm scared to say it. We're nothing at all like we were when we first started seeing each other- we were spontaneous, amorous, happy- everything lovers should be. We are each other's first ...

So miserable... My ex-girlfriend is all I want in the world. She cannot be mine, and it hurts. What do you think?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6258 days ago

27 September 2007 (M) - Please help me. Today, I'm so, so miserable about everything. Call it an off-day if you must, but whatever it is, it's dragging me WAAAY down. It's just over 3 months since my girlfriend and first love broke up with me, due to (as she claims) ...

I say I love you and he doesn't say it back anymore

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6264 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - I love my husband very much but yesterday I got angry with him (it was not unprovoked) and I said something truly horrible to him. I really went below the belt. We have been having problems for a long time and they are not helped by circumstances ...

My feelings have changed since he cheated

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6264 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - I'm a little confused I've been with my boyfriend for two years eventhough, he cheated twice with the same girl and I forgave him but ever since I've forgave him I feel that my feelings towards him are a little different. I've become more aggresive ...

We are drifting apart, but I am getting closer to a female friend...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6264 days ago

27 September 2007 (M) - My wife and I have been married for 4 years now. Over the past year especially she has been becoming distant. I wirk alot and she complains that I am never home. I tried to change that this summer. I am usually home by 6 or 7. However anytime I ...

There's no chance of us getting back together, but I can't get her out of my head? How can I move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6265 days ago

26 September 2007 (M) - Me and my ex have been seperated for almost a year now..... and she has made it crystal clear that the chace of us ever been together is nil...She has moved on with her life and I play no part in it. But I just cant get her outta my head. She is ...

He wasn't always a horrible boyfriend, so how can I forget the good times?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6247 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - hi, i just split up with my boyfriend because i have had enough. he cheats on me, he spits at me, he punches me, he tells me im the ugliest person he's ever seen and if i made him really mad he would rape me. the relationship is completely 150% ...

He doesn't want me anymore, but I don't think I can live without him! Please help me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6265 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - Hi, I had a relationship of 11 years. During 10 years we were very happy. Two years ago we bought a house. Then I wanted to marry. My boyfriend would not. And we couldn't talk about it so one year ago I left my him. We worked about a year on our r...

My bf says he wants to rekindle our relationship, but only wants to see me twice a week!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6265 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - after dating someone steady for almost 3 years, breaking up two times, can this relationship be rekindled? once a relationship has gotten very intimate can you really start over like it was when you first started dating the person? my bf says that ...

She says she likes someone else...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6249 days ago

25 September 2007 (M) - I am 17 and so is my girlfriend. we have been together for just over 2 years. She has just told me that she likes/fancys somebody else, even though she does not find him particuly attractive and claims she has never thought about doing anything with ...

W complex situation...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6265 days ago

25 September 2007 (M) - Okay here's my situation - I had a liking for my mates ex a couple of months after they broke up and she liked me(he broke it off twice with her). This was so unexpected coz i didnt see this coming and i never looked at her that way before, espe...

Do you think he wants to get back with me? I ended the relation for he was abusive.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6266 days ago

25 September 2007 (F) - I broke up with my bf just over a month ago, he was verbally/emotionally abusive. We were going out for 7 months. Anyway up until yesterday we hadnt spoken to each other since the break up. I dindt try to contact him at all and he made a few lame ...

She doesn't care about me as much anymore, but wants to fix things. What can be done?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6266 days ago

25 September 2007 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been together for three years, and we have been very in love with each other all this time, we used to do everything together, she even moved in with me. Two months ago she went to work in another country for 6 weeks and ...

He is treating me awful, should I leave him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6106 days ago

24 September 2007 (F) - Should I leave my boyfriend? He basically is treating me like crap, he ignores me, he never replies to my messages, he's selfish in everything he does.He wont pull his weight around the house and when i ask him to do anything he says he does eno...

I don't know whether I just want closure, or whether I really did screw it up for us!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6267 days ago

24 September 2007 (M) - confused! Dated a wonderful girl for almost 5 years. I was 23-28, she 19-24. It has been over a year since the split (She dumped me). Now I am confused. She didn't give answers other than she fell outta love, and that I wasn't career and goa...

I broke up with him and I am glad. Is it ok to feel this way?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6267 days ago

23 September 2007 (F) - ive recently split with my boyfriend. we werent together long and he didnt take it very well. he dragged out the whole thing for a wek before he would let it lie. anyway im glad i did it. i dont want a boyfriend. i want to have fun and i wasnt ha...

I'm falling out of love with him. How do I recover my feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6270 days ago

21 September 2007 (F) - We are already one year in me and my boyfriend, but i'm fallen out of love to him....what should i do to recover my feelings? coz i'm afraid also to loss him.....

I love my boyfriend but I don't feel he loves me as much back. Does anyone else have this problem?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6266 days ago

21 September 2007 (F) - I am in love with my boyfriend, but sometimes I feel he doesn't love me as much as I love him. Does anyone else have this problem, or am I just overreacting?...

My boyfriend has gotten abusive

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 6013 days ago

20 September 2007 (F) - ive been with my boyfriend for just over 2 years and we recently had a baby during my pregnancy he started getting a little aggressive just doing little things like pulling my hair and pinching me, since the birth of our son its got worse in the ...

My boyfriend and I have herpes, I want to break up but I am afraid no one else will want me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6159 days ago

20 September 2007 (F) - My bf and i have herpes. We found out a year ago and im still with him. I think i am with him cause im afraid someone else wont want me. He's getting mean. I wanna be with sumone else sum1 older but i dont kno if he likes me since we only e mail ...

Lately my boyfriend doesn't want to have sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6266 days ago

20 September 2007 (F) - My boyriend has been refusing to have sex with me and i dont kno y. Ive started a diet thinking that is y but idk. Hes been really mean to me lately and it hurts its like he doesnt appreciate me. He never says please or thank u. Recently i told him ...

She's not in love with me, but she still keeps calling me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6272 days ago

19 September 2007 (M) - Has anyone fallen back in love with the person they fell out of love with ? My girlfriend of 3 years told me she loves me but is not in love with me so she broke up with me. When she did she said that with all of her exes she knew it was over but ...

Our sex life has dwindled to 4 times over the past year :-(

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6272 days ago

19 September 2007 (M) - Hello Everyone, I am a 23year old male, recently engaged after dating my gf for 6 years. I would describe our relationship as almost perfect. I love her very much and i know that she loves me too... For the first 2 years we had sex every w...

Everything was perfect until my date stopped calling me and became distant. We had a wonderful trip after that, but then he told me that he loved but but his heart was not in?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6272 days ago

19 September 2007 (F) - Please help, ive been dating a guy for 2 months that totally swept me off my feet,im a very careful and guarded person normally but this time I could not hold back. We fell in love almost instantly, could not be apart and hated not hearing each oth...

Do I get back together with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6273 days ago

18 September 2007 (F) - Hi. Can anyone help sort my mind out? I've recently got back with my ex after 6 months apart but some communication etc in the meantime. I feel that since the split in March that I have got on with my life - that doesn't mean looking for someone ...

Is he just giving excuses not to go to bed with me? I feel unloved...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6254 days ago

17 September 2007 (F) - i have been married for 3 years now. we have children from previous marriages who live with us. I am very upset as my husband sleeps on the sofa most nights. he gives a variety of reasons for not coming to bed. "cramp, checking something on the net,...

Married 22 years, 2 children caught in the middle, financial problems, had to give up work due to depression, unsupporting husband, no friend... What on earth am I going to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6274 days ago

17 September 2007 (F) - Hi, I really don't know what to do? I have been married for 22 years and have two teenage children. We have got financial money problems owing alot of money to alot of people. I have had to give up work due to suffering from depression and am u...

She blew it off

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6274 days ago

17 September 2007 (M) - Okay, I need help big-time. My ex and I are really done. I know it. I feel it. Here is my dilemma. I broke it off last June 1st. She wasn't sure how she felt about us etc... She had been saying that off and on for the last year. I was tired of it, a...

I'm starting to feel attracted to other women

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6271 days ago

17 September 2007 (M) - Hey, I need a bit of advice I've been with my first and only girlfriend now for almost three years which is great. but for a long while now our sex life has almost gone. In the last 18 months we have had sex less than around five times,we dont liv...

Even though spending a lot of time with my work girl, I found myself missing my girlfriend terribly. I am swinging from one decision to another.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6274 days ago

16 September 2007 (M) - Ok, from the start...... I'm a 27 year old guy, and have been seeing a wonderful woman for 3 years, who i met in a random bar in a huge city, and when we started talking we found we were virtually identical; same interests, thoughts, humour...

My loving, wonderful boyfriend has changed since his return from Iraq. I don't know what to do.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6274 days ago

16 September 2007 (F) - hay guys! right i have no idea were to start i met this guy 2 yrs ago! the perfect guy eva! we fell in love almost straight away! then he found out he had to go away for 8 months with the army to iraq! then half way though the trip he got a we...

He wants me back. I want to stay single, but I'm not sure my feelings will ever go away!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6275 days ago

15 September 2007 (F) - I was with a guy for 6yrs an have 2 children by him, we split up 4 mnths ago due to him staying out all night partying and generally not treating me very good.Now he wants me back and although i do still love him my head is telling me not to do it.I ...

She thinks I've made a big mistake, and now I think she's gone off me! I don't want to lose her! Any advice?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

15 September 2007 (M) - I'm currently dating a fantastic girl. Everything was going perfect for ages until she had to do these important exams.. Her mood totally changed around this time. When we were out she was aloof and detached and unaffectionate. I felt it best to ...

I feel like I don't love him anymore..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6275 days ago

15 September 2007 (F) - I cant wait till its my birthday! but theres one thing. i feel that i dont love him anymore. i mean, i dont have that feelinf like i use to. everytime i see him think him as a friend but i dont know how to tell him.somw times i try to tell im but, ...

I'm in a rut and now there's another guy...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6278 days ago

13 September 2007 (F) - Dear Cupid I started dating this guy over two years ago straight out of another relatioship so I basically jumped right in. It became serious really fast and I am really concerned right now that I may be falling for someone else. I dont know if ...

I'm not sure I love my boyfriend anymore but am scared of being on my own with no family. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

12 September 2007 (F) - hi sorry if long............ am looking for advice unfortuantely my life hasnt turned out the way i planned, i have been with my boyfriend for 5 yrs, we live together, but im now wondering if the best thing to do is to go my own way. we ge...

Why does she give me false hopes? I need help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6279 days ago

11 September 2007 (M) - Me and my girlfriend broke up 1 week ago. We had ben together for almost 3 years. We bought a house together, now we are trying to figure that one out. She tells me that she is not in love with me. The thing is she keeps tellling me with all her ...

Why has my boyfriend suddenly cut me out of his life??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6280 days ago

11 September 2007 (F) - Last week my b/f just suddenly decided he needed 'space' we hadn't fallen out or anything it just came out of the blue. I havn't heard from im in over a week although we lived together and all of his clothes and everything are still at my house ...

I think my marriage is in trouble. Please tell me what you think.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6280 days ago

11 September 2007 (F) - Here is my story, I have been married for just over 2 years. My husband and I dated off an on for 3 years before we got marrried. We now have a son (16 months). Our marriage has never been very strong. We still have seperate checking accounts ...

The guy I'm dating calls too often, disfocusing me from my studies. How to let him know not to disturb me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6280 days ago

11 September 2007 (F) - Its almost 4 am. Im awake. Thats ok,im student and study usualy at night. Well, here is the problem. Im dating with a guy who presumably now has problems with sleeping,... Dont want to sound unsympathetic or , but this guy knows that i have strict ...

He's a great dad and a great guy but I don't think I love him anymore! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6239 days ago

10 September 2007 (F) - I have been married 6 years now. We met when I was barely 20 and were married 2 years after. We have two children (one from his previous marriage)and I'm trying to act like I'm happy in my marriage for them. I just don't know how long I can do ...

Me and my girlfriend have nothing in common. I've met someone new, should I persue it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6201 days ago

10 September 2007 (M) - i have been dating the same girl for 5 years now. the relationship is very unhealthy. we only have dinner and have sex about once a week (typical date night for us) we live seperate lives and have nothing in common. however we love each other very ...

I want to split with my girlfriend but I'm worried I wont meet someone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6273 days ago

10 September 2007 (M) - Did I do the right thing???? I recently split up with my first and only girlfriend. I'm 27 (so its a late start for me) but she was younger. She's a lovely girl and loved me with all her heart, she would have done anything for me. But throug...

I'm easily annoyed by his affections but I feel that walking away would be the biggest mistake of my life. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6281 days ago

10 September 2007 (F) - I have been in quite a few unsuccessful relationships in my past. I seem to always fall for the type of man no woman in her right mind would ever want to be with. With that said, I'm involved in a very new relationship with a man who is crazy about ...

Should I end this though we have wonderful times? He's showed me no signs on wanting a future together and is looking for his soulmate online.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6281 days ago

10 September 2007 (F) - I have been dating a guy for the past eight months. I am a very attractive female. My boyfriend is the average joe. He is a part-time musician. A while back he had to perform and I accompanied him. During one of the half hour breaks that he had a ...