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*ftamath96
writes: Me and my ex have been seperated for almost a year now..... and she has made it crystal clear that the chace of us ever been together is nil...She has moved on with her life and I play no part in it.But I just cant get her outta my head. She is the first thing i think of in the morning and the last thing i think of at night. Is it normal after a year to still be so in love with her. I understand that she aint intrested, n i never make make a move but i just cant get her out of my head i do want to move on with my life as she has hers but i dont know how..Any IDEAS?????Thx gaz
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reader, brooke5426 +, writes (26 September 2007):
all you can do is wait and give it time and remember that it wont always feel like this. you wont be 70 and still thinking about her day and night. it will pass eventually. and i think that after a year you are probably in a place where you could start dating again - maybe not getting into a serious relationship quite just yet - but casual dating will help take your mind off her and remind you that there are a lot of girls out there who can make you happy so dont waste your life thinking about someone who is not thinking about you.
good luck
brooke
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reader, kenny +, writes (26 September 2007):
I really do think it is time for you to move on with your life and look at this relationship you had a year ago as a learing curve, water under the bridge. Your ex has moved on, now it is time for you to do the same. I think once you meet someone else and start dating again your mind will be taken away and you will find you don't think about you ex any longer. Hang in there, things will get better, time is the healer of all things.
Good luck
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