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writes:Should I leave my boyfriend?He basically is treating me like crap, he ignores me, he never replies to my messages, he's selfish in everything he does.He wont pull his weight around the house and when i ask him to do anything he says he does enough, he laughs at me when i try to be serious with him and even last weekend we were arguing and i thought we would sort it the following day which was our anniversary, he decided to stand me up and work on his night off instead of sorting things out!please advise me.....by the way the only thing i did was ask him to help around the house and it went to hell
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2008): but i love him so much and i feel when i break up with him or he does with me i feel that i need him
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2007): Tell him to get lost. Why are you even asking this question? sorry, but i think you deserve better and shouldnt have to put up with this cr*p. LIfe is much tooooo short to be putting up with this. He is so disrespectful and you know it, so get him out of your life now before you are looking back on 10 or 20 years and wishing you had.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2007): leave him hunni if hes treating you like that you deserve better hes not showing you any respect or love that you desereve if he gets violent or threatens you in any way report him
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reader, Jovial  +, writes (25 September 2007):
 I agree with DrPsych you already have all these questions that tells you your relationship is definitely not working out. you are not happy and he doesnt care so why stay with someone who doesnt care about how you feel? let alone ridicule your efforts of trying to make things right? I think this guy from everything you said he doesnt want you anymore he is not even trying to save it when u suggest talking what does that tell you? judge for yourself. remember your happiness should come first in all this.
Jovial
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2007): Its never easy to break up with some one especially when you've been with the person for such a long time. And if you let your self you'll come up with reasons why now isn't a good time. Well it's never going to be a good time. I would leave him if I were you because it sounds as though you will never be happy with him. He can't possibly be meeting your emotional needs. You deserve better.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2007): Some people just want to be doormats. I'm afraid you have made yourself fit into this category.
Is there something about his selfishness that you find attractive? i.e. you think you can change him so its worth the effort.
As long as you live by this creed you will be forever running after selfish men who will treat you like shit.
Try and break the mold, go out with a guy who respects you , they might not have the same excitement factor as your current boyfriend but do you really want to be a victim all your life?
At the end of the day its your choice, you choose to stay or go. There are plenty of controlling men out there waiting for the next doormat to turn up, you have an opportunity to make sure there is one less to stomp on.
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reader, DrPsych +, writes (25 September 2007):
 Your boyfriend (and I use the term loosely as it doesn't sound like he is doing much to fit the job description) is treating you badly because you let him treat you badly. Sorry if that is harsh news but ultimately he feels that you won't leave no matter what he does. It doesn't sound like you get much from the relationship so why stay? I think it comes down to self respect at the end of the day.
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