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writes:Hey,A year and eight months ago I started going out with a boy and after a month we were both in love with each other. We lasted for a year and a four months and we split up because we were arguing. We were both in the middle of exams and to be honest, had taken each other for granted. He ended it with me, wanted to have another try but he said no.Three months after we had split up, he got another gf. Up to this point i still loved him, however, I have never liked his new gf and we stopped talking and i got used to not seeing him. When he got a new gf, i fell out of love with him and moved on. They only went out for three weeks. When they finished he came back to me and told me he still loved me and wanted to try again. I said yes, even though i didn't love him. I believe we did have something good once and wanted to try again. But half the time i don't care whether i see him or not, and the rest of the time i think i love him.I just don't know whether i should try for us, or just move on. I wanted him back so badly, but he asked me out pretty much as soon as i moved on. I hope it isn't too confusing... x
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reader, BlueEyes89 +, writes (1 October 2007):
 Heya,
I was in a similar situation myself not that long ago, so i understand why you are confused about everything and need advice! Obviously, with you and your ex boyfriend, you were in love, therefor close and intimate and confortable with each other as people are who are in love. He must have broke your heart when he broke up with you (ive been there! ouch!) You were brave and strong and as you said, you moved on, because your young, and no doubt attractive, and you knew that this relationship wouldnt be your first and last, and im sure you know that one day you will find someone so besotted and in love with you, he would rather walk over hot coals than leave you... However, you ex-boyfriend, well, he just seems like every young lad around the world, always wanting more, and when he's left on his own, he will go crawling back to the last person who loved him, no noubt, thinking with whats in his trousers! It seems as if you dont love him, and now, that he doesnt really love you... (else he wouldnt have been with someone else) stay strong, you don't need him, continue to move on and have fun with your friends! If you ever need a chat, just message me, take care, Hannah xxx
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