Married 22 years, 2 children caught in the middle, financial problems, had to give up work due to depression, unsupporting husband, no friend... What on earth am I going to do? |
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writes:Hi, I really don't know what to do? I have been married for 22 years and have two teenage children. We have got financial money problems owing alot of money to alot of people. I have had to give up work due to suffering from depression and am unsure whether i want to work again. My husband is being really unsupportive and saying some really cruel things to me. I have only got my children, i have no friends or other family. I don't know whether we should sell our house split up and be on my own with my children. I really don't know what to do?????
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reader, Hk45cal  +, writes (17 September 2007):
Stress is a marriage killer....Managing stress is one of the hardest things to do when you have two teens, no job, and an unsupportive husband. The financial problems need to be addressed, besides sex this the next biggest argument issue in relationships. Addressing these concerns will help get to the root of the problem.
Where is the debt coming from?
What can be cut from the budget?
What do we have as an asset that is draining us financially, can we sell it?
Two things of advice:
contact debt consolidation firm!!
seek counseling
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanx Mandy,
I have had counselling and have seen my Doctor who put me on anti- depression tablets.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2007): Hi Love,
Im sorry to hear that things have got so bad for you, Have you seen a doctor who can refere you to a counsellor. Your depression is the outcome of all this worry and when we get to that point everything seems so dark and you feel like there is no way out...
The way your husband is with you is'nt helping, having no family or friends also is'nt helping...If you can find a good doctor explain your circumstanses, Then that will be the first step for some support, your money worrys is the money owed to loan companys? As citizans advise can help with this, If your husband is being really cruel to you, you can get help and advise from victim support they are very helpfull in many ways they can help with all sorts of problems..Dont give up on yourself always have faith in you and if you need a chat im here PLEASE TAKE CARE WITH LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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