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36-40,
*ddgie05
writes:Dear Cupid I started dating this guy over two years ago straight out of another relatioship so I basically jumped right in. It became serious really fast and I am really concerned right now that I may be falling for someone else. I dont know if it is an inocent crush or if I am really feeling like I need a change. My boyfriend and I have lived together now for over a year and its just not the same as it used to be. I dont want to get married right away and I am just so confused. I am really in a rut, do I try and talk to this other guy? Do I tell my boyfriend? Or do I just forget about it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2007): My advice would be to firstly sit down with your boyfriend and talk, and if at the end of the talking you still feel the same way then go your separate ways. It is not fair on your boyfriend if you just start seeing other guys. He needs to know where he stands and if that means going your seperate ways then do that, and then see this other guy, and work out for yourself if you want to be with him. It might just be you want to be with him because as you say things arent like what they used to be with your boyfriend and this other guy seems much more fun etc. Your opinion may change once you decide what you want to do with your boyfriend.Hope this helps
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2007): Well if you are not happy in your relationship, why not break it off & start fresh? I think you need to be alone for a little bit to figure out who you are & what you want. Jumping from one relationship to another (while you're still in a relationship) is a bad idea b/c you don't allow yourself time to reflect on what went wrong & how you can make sure that it doesn't happen in your next relationship. And you never have time to reflect on yourself. Just a thought.
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