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writes:I cant wait till its my birthday! but theres one thing. i feel that i dont love him anymore. i mean, i dont have that feelinf like i use to. everytime i see him think him as a friend but i dont know how to tell him.somw times i try to tell im but, he's always like what? why? baby!?i tried and i try but... hes so sweet and i cant take it anymore! he's like a puppy who would go away! i told i need space but he always callin me.please help me! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2007): I know exactly how u feel. I dated this guy a long time ago and he was exactly the same. After about a month or so I realised that he wasn't the guy 4 me so I tried to break it off and explain that I just wanted to be friends. But he would just keep calling, texting and rocking up at my door step. The worst thing was that I liked another guy and I'd even told myy bf this and his response was that my crush would never go for me.I became so miserable. Any way this went on for ages. Then one night at his place the guy that I had a major crush on and I almost hooked up. I finally realised that I had to get tough with him. What I'm getting at is you have to follow ur heart. I know its really hard becoz uve developed a friendship with this person and so you've come to care about them and the last thing u want to do is hurt them. But honestky my backing down every time and putting his feelings before ur own ur only hurting urself. True love is the most precious, amazing thing and u deserve to find it and to me it doesn't seem like this is the guy for you. Stand up for urself and be strong as hard as it is to do. Trust me it will all be worth it I've been with my crush for 4 yrs now and I love hime more than anything in the world u owe it to urself to find that. You're worth it! Good luck
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reader, Tommy7 +, writes (15 September 2007):
Tell him with brutal honesty, then don't do anything that would give him mixed signals. Stay away and date a new guy.
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reader, beautifultrustnlover +, writes (15 September 2007):
 be firm and dont take back what you say let him know you wish to be hes friend if he can handle that and you need time in your life to be single and breath a little and cut it short with him saying you got to go
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