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Archived questions from: June, 2018 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

My boyfriend is depressed and anxious, what's going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2342 days ago

30 June 2018 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for over 5 years. The first year was great but since then we've had alot of personal challenges. For the past 1.5 years my boyfriend has been struggling with anxiety and depression. He couldn't cope with work anymore and ...

How could my girlfriend move on from a 4 year relationship so quickly and already be with another man?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2318 days ago

30 June 2018 (M) - Two Weeks ago, my relationship of 4 years ended with my girlfriend. i have been devastated, things have not been good for a while, but i was willing to do whatever it took as i never saw myself being with anyone else. we have not been intimate in ...

There's a weird movie-like scenario playing in my head where I imagine my boyfriend and his ex pining for each other and wanting to get back together!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2337 days ago

30 June 2018 (F) - My boyfriend (26) and I (22) have been together for ~9 months. This is my first ever relationship and, at this point, we're going pretty strong and live together. I feel more confident in my relationship that I ever have. Except for one thing. ...

I'm have an uncomfortable feeling about my girlfriend's stepfather who walks around in the nude and God knows what else is going on

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2341 days ago

29 June 2018 (M) - Right so this all started one day when my girlfriend called me I thought nothing of it, she usally calls me 5 times a day but she mentioned her step dad how she feels “uncomfortable” with him cos he walked round the house naked or just in his ...

I fear that he has grown controlling, though he says that I am too sensitive.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2338 days ago

29 June 2018 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years. We are both 23 and met in our first year of university. I did not take uni seriously initially and ended up failing and being suspended for 2 years for it. I was struggling financially and relied on ...

Boyfriend's close friend from his highschool group is obsessed with him and he's slept with her... And while she hates me, he won't stop hanging out with her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2338 days ago

29 June 2018 (F) - So my boyfriend has a really close friend group from highschool. 3 other guys and 3 girls and they have a groupchat they always text in and are always planning hangouts together. This one girl in his group has always been obsessed with him (i've ...

What do I do when I'm not ready for this to be over and fear that's what will happen if I told him I read that?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2343 days ago

28 June 2018 (F) - Even my boyfriend and I got together, he told me "You can read my diaries, but do not tell me about it." When I asked about it he said it's because he wants to be understood, but he doesn't want anyone to read his deepest thoughts. So, after his ex ...

My partner doesn't help with the new baby, is overpowering and dominant, and abusive when drunk. I've had enough of him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2344 days ago

27 June 2018 (F) - Hi all, I am at a crossroad in my relationship/life. I had a beautiful baby month in January this year. He is my pride and joy. However I am now seeing a side of my fiancee that i hate (i know thats a strong word) I'm not sure I love him or want to ...

I'm at my wit's end about my boyfriend's constant complaints!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2345 days ago

27 June 2018 (F) - My boyfriend is a loving, faithful and caring person. We have been in a relationship for 6 months and dated for 6 months before that. We have good communication, friendship, chemistry and sexual compatibility. Everything is great except for his ...

Is it normal to feel apathetic towards guys after a while?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2344 days ago

27 June 2018 (F) - Have you ever felt indifferent towards men for a long time after a bad relationship and constantly being looked over, and I say looked over because you don't even get close to being rejected. Is this even normal? My whole life I have been looked...

My boyfriend seems like he's too busy for me and I'm not sure how to handle it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2340 days ago

27 June 2018 (F) - Hi aunts and uncles. I had posted a couple weeks ago, asking a question about my bf not saying "I love you" because he'd rather make me feel loved.(which is a good thing) But I guess I've been feeling like hes really been putting me on the back ...

Boyfriend left for a night of hard drugs and drinking and I haven't heard from him in 24 hours. Should I dump him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2345 days ago

26 June 2018 (F) - Hi. My boyfriend went on a night out that resulted in me not hearing from him for over 24 hours. He said he had ended up drinking all night with some guy he met and tried to get cocaine too. While doing this he also decided to ignore my messages ...

I’m starting to worry about her relationship with a lesbian friend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2344 days ago

24 June 2018 (M) - My girlfriend is friends with a lesbian. I'm starting to get worried. Am I overreacting? They've become really close. They've been spending a lot of time together. Sometimes, she goes for a girls night out with her friends including her le...

How do I make my girlfriend feel special and loved?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2348 days ago

24 June 2018 (M) - Hi guys, Thanks in advance for taking the time to read my post. Basically, my GF of almost one year has told me that she feels more like my best friend than girlfriend. I really need help in fixing things as I care about her a great deal and ...

I love him but feel neglected.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2348 days ago

23 June 2018 (F) - Hi Aunts and Advisors :) Ive been dating, "Evan" going on 1 year. We worked together at a bar that I left soon after but we continued to date. He still works this hectic hospitality schedule. I have a day job. neither opus are "rich" people bu...

I ask women I sleep with about their opinion on abortion because I don't want kids. How do I know the girl I'm seeing is on the same page?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2345 days ago

22 June 2018 (M) - So I met a wonderful girl online and we hit it off really well. We kissed on the first date, had lunch on the second, and ended up sleeping with each other on the third when she invited me over to her apartment for pizza and a movie. We used ...

My bf drunk texted his ex FWB and now I feel like I have a right to go through his phone

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2349 days ago

21 June 2018 (F) - My boyfriend of a year and 8 months drunkenly text a girl whom he used to see sexually before we started dating. I feel like I have a right to go through his phone now but at the same time I don’t. He feels terribly about the situation and has since ...

I feel resentful toward my girlfriend. Should I keep trying to make it work?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2350 days ago

21 June 2018 (F) - I met my girlfriend online 7 months ago and we have been living together for the past 4 months. We use to talk on the phone everyday for the first 3 months. She came here from a different country to visit me and hasn't been back to her country ...

Newly back on the dating scene, can I booty call a guy or is that creepy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2349 days ago

21 June 2018 (F) - Hi Cupid, I have a weird question. So, I am newly back on the dating scene after almost 13 years. I am 31. So, I’ve been going on some dates, and a few weeks ago I had two with a lovely guy. We had a great time, connected well and had great che...

I’m conflicted on what to do or feel about my parents!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2351 days ago

19 June 2018 (F) - Hi all, I posted some time ago. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-this-over-committing-to-him-.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-19-years-old-an-age-where-it.html In my previous questions, I basically had an argument with my parents ...

Should I say I was annoyed about the way he set up meeting his children?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2325 days ago

19 June 2018 (F) - Should i tell him I felt annoyed? My boyfriend of 5 mths recently invited me over to meet his children of 21 and 16. They were having a takeaway night so thought it would casual. We arranged a time and I went over. I knocked the door but got...

Why can't I orgasm normally?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2351 days ago

18 June 2018 (M) - I know it is embarassing but I just lost my virginity at this old age. Problem is I can't achieve orgasm during vaginal intercourse. I don't have erectile disfunction and I ejaculate easily when masturbating using my hand. Could my problem be du...

My boyfriend doesn't say "I love you." What are your thoughts?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2352 days ago

18 June 2018 (F) - Hello all. So my inquiry isn't as serious as most, but I'm curious as to what your thoughts are, aunts and uncles. I have been dating my boyfriend for almost a year and a half. He is a very good man and while we have dealt with some small issues, ...

I don't want a boyfriend, I'm not interested in sex and I just want to be left alone!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2350 days ago

18 June 2018 (F) - I have absolutely no interest in sex and while I've had it before, I'm honestly disgusted by it. The whole thing: having people in my bubble, having a face too close to mine, random unnecessary touches, kissing is just gross to me. I don't like the ...

My boyfriend ignores me at times.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2354 days ago

18 June 2018 (F) - im with my boyfriend for 5 years and he ignores me at time when he is in his facebook and takes awhile to answer me when im talking to him and i feel he takes advantage of my kinds and times i dont think he appreciate alot of things i do for him ...

I'm worried he still has feelings for his ex.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2354 days ago

18 June 2018 (F) - Is he really over his Ex? Me and my boyfriend have been together 2 years now and I thought we was both the happiest we could be. Last night he went to show me something on social media and his ex girlfriend was at the very top of his search bar I...

None of my friends like him .... what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2354 days ago

18 June 2018 (F) - I (33F) am looking for advice regarding my boyfriend(31M) of two years. None of my friends like him. In fact, they all basically refuse to spend time with him. The typical reasons for this would have to do with the guy being a cheater, abusive...

I'm waiting for a girl to come and sweep me off my feet.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2353 days ago

18 June 2018 (M) - Please bare with me and sorry for the long post. Im in a bit of a slump the past year. Essentially I once again broke up with a girl I'm madly in love with because circumstances prevents us from being together, that being a long distance relatio...

He said we were moving too fast, and that he had bigger plans.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2353 days ago

18 June 2018 (F) - I met this guy about a month ago and everything was going great. We were so genuinely happy with each other, always laughing and having fun. I met his friends and family. It felt like we were moving towards a relationship. We would see each other ...

We are growing apart and I don't know what to do about it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2349 days ago

18 June 2018 (F) - Hiya, Ok I am in desperate need of advice, I have been in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend for 4 years now and I love him so much however I am thinking of ending our relationship. He is 10 years old than I am (the age has neve...

My boyfriend is on his phone but does not reply to my texts!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2355 days ago

15 June 2018 (F) - My boyfriend used to take the initiative to text me in the beginning of the relationship, but lately it has become such that he takes hours to reply to a simple text. I'm not a heavy texter myself. But I noticed that he checks Instagram freque...

Should I give both of us another chance? Or not bother?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2356 days ago

15 June 2018 (F) - Hi everyone. I have this ex who i was with 2 years ago. We met and everything was great so much that we moved together in 3 months so we could be closer, he lived in another city. From that moment on he gradually changed and was becoming cold, ...

I asked for help and he lied about why he couldn't.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2358 days ago

14 June 2018 (F) - I am not sure if what I am feeling right now is normal or I am being unjust? I asked for help from my boyfriend of 4 years. what I need is a room/place to stay for 1 year while I am doing the last part of my studies. We do not live together...

All couples argue..But where do we draw a line?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2358 days ago

13 June 2018 (F) - My dear other half thinks his verbal abuse is just an arguement and it would be if I would agree to that. But I know there is more to it than that and it destroys me as the pattern repeats with increasing frequency. He cant see that its not a c...

My boyfriend's drunken behaviour was nasty. Should I just let it pass?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2358 days ago

12 June 2018 (F) - My bf, myself and our close friends were at a house party. I spent most of my time helping the hosts so I was pretty much sober while my bf decided to get sloshed after many years. By the end of the night, he had way too many and was totally out ...

Where is the panty liner, will he think me disgusting if he finds it?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2357 days ago

12 June 2018 (F) - Before me and this guy had sex I went to use the bathroom and I removed my pantyliner. The pantyliner was clean as I recently put it on but his trash was overflowing so I decided to just wrap it up and put it in my pocket and throw it away when i ...

Should our relationship be more connected than this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2360 days ago

12 June 2018 (F) - My partner and I have been together for three years and I feel like our lives aren't as "connected" as they should be. We lived together and spend a lot of time together in the flat, but outside we don't do anything. I have a few close friends, b...

How do you know if you're meant to be together forever?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2360 days ago

11 June 2018 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 3.5 years, lived together for almost 3 years of that. He's my best friend and we've spoken openly about marriage and kids. Anyway, my question is, how do you know if you're really meant to be together fore...

After seven years I find myself becoming detached.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2358 days ago

11 June 2018 (M) - I'm in a 7-year relationship. We're both divorced, both have children, but mine are older (hers are 11 and 14). It seems to me that we used to be "closer" and talked about future dreams, things we liked about each other, flirted with each other, ...

She has a guy friend stay over!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2355 days ago

11 June 2018 (M) - I am dating someone and have been for 4 or 5 months now. She is having a guy friend stay over, which makes me uncomfortable on a level of respect. I have stayed at another girls place with a previous gf and was told by family that this shouldn't of ...

Am I too shallow? Should I give him a chance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2361 days ago

10 June 2018 (F) - I got out of a 1 year relationship recently where the guy didn't treat me right towards the end. Now i met this wonderful man who is the complete opposite of my ex, very affectionate, sweet, caring, he is mature and really really likes me. He even ...

Why did he throw the gifts in the trash?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2362 days ago

10 June 2018 (F) - ok my ex boyfriend of 6 years when we met we were both 45 it’s weird cause I just had a broke up wasn’t looking and he was on Facebook I didn’t wanta like him I had just lost a lot of weight cause I had my first child only child so I was very ...

My boyfriend says if I don't lose weight after our baby's birth he will dump me!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2362 days ago

9 June 2018 (F) - I am 24 weeks pregnant. My boyfriend is constantly calling me fat. He says he is teasing. He also said that if I don't lose the weight after the baby is born he will dump me. I have taken all these things to heart. I was really skinny before I got ...

Is he fighting with himself about his feelings for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2363 days ago

9 June 2018 (F) - I started college and started dealing with this guy on and off for like 8 months we were never in a relationship because we both decided that the timing was off since he would be leaving to go out of state for grad school. We decided on being ...

How do I stop being so insecure about my boyfriend’s last relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2355 days ago

8 June 2018 (F) - Hello all.. So I’ll get right to it. I have been with my boyfriend for 5 months now, officially 3 months. I actually met him a year ago at my job. I sold cars and he was a customer of mine but he ended up buying a car from a competitor. But ...

Is it normal for closed-mouth kisses to be wet?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2364 days ago

8 June 2018 (F) - My boyfriend's kisses or pecks on my lips leave my lips wet with his saliva, which I do not like. I sometimes wipe my lips after which he understandably gets offended by. I don't recall this happening with other guys, only him. He seems to purse his ...

How should I handle finding these texts?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2363 days ago

8 June 2018 (F) - Some back story: My boyfriend and I have been together a little over a year. Aside from a few normal bumps and turns in the road, our relationship has been quite a breeze. We started off in a very unconventional way, though. I actually had a fling ...

Is it time to end it ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2364 days ago

8 June 2018 (F) - Hi, So I’ve been in my first and only age gap relationship for six months, we met at work and both thought the other was closer in age. For the most part it hasn’t been an issue but recently I’ve found the level of maturity has been really starting...

Love triangle without an end

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2363 days ago

8 June 2018 (M) - So this is what happened. I started dating this girl one year ago. She is 30, I am 35. At the beginning, it was exciting, she was classy, elegant, fun, spicy, etc. In the first months we had great sex and she was seeing the whole thing as fuck ...

My boyfriend often tells me small lies, how do I get him to stop?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2364 days ago

7 June 2018 (F) - Been tigether 2 years and the past 6 months my boyfriend has the tendancy to change his stories often and its getting to a point where Im always get upset and angry and then we end up in a big argument. Theyre usually small pointless ones, but if he ...