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Archived questions from: January, 2017 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

Will I ever move on, get over everything and meet someone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2857 days ago

31 January 2017 (F) - Hello everyone, I hope you're all well. So basically I feel and think that I will seriously never meet anyone who I feel a close connection and chemistry with. A few years ago was the worst time of my life. I had no confidence and was very u...

I don’t want to lose either of them. Please advise what I should do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2857 days ago

31 January 2017 (F) - I have been in a very serious and committed relationship for 5 years. I wasn't sure of our relationship but i realized that I really love my guy. we have had our share of fights but we are still strong and we have our fair share of restrict...

Dad told me if I dated this guy he would kick me out

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2856 days ago

31 January 2017 (F) - I am 19 years old. Im a college student. There's a guy I like who is 24, I get along with great because we share the same interests. He likes me back. Though I can't date him for two reasons: 1 were related by marriage (no blood) 2 my dad said if...

Should I pay attention to his behavioral patterns

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2831 days ago

31 January 2017 (F) - When I was in undergrad 7 years ago I was partnered with one of my classmates (Tom) to do a class project. at the time I was in an unhealthy relationship and every time I went tto class I got attention from Tom. Both me and tom were attracted to ...

I don't understand the attitude of my hook-up

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2831 days ago

30 January 2017 (F) - My hook up and I kept trying to make plans to, well you know, hook up, but he kept cancelling on me because something came up that he had to take care of. Anyway he apologized for being confusing lately (which idk what that really meant) but I...

He gets my hopes up talking about having kids and then changes his mind!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2856 days ago

29 January 2017 (F) - hello all of you, I'm Lauren, I would like you all to know my name. I need some advice. I have just come out of a 16 year relationship, my now ex was a lot older than me and had his fill of life experience, married, 4 kids, divorced and th...

I am over chasing men. But without a man in my life, then how can I be happy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2675 days ago

29 January 2017 (F) - It seems since I have been 17 years old I have been chasing men. 13 years later an two bad relatiosnhios and a broken home(my parents are miserable together) I have had enough. A little back story ( since my early twenties I have done everythi...

Should I give up on men? Is there such a thing as a normal guy? I want a relationship with a man.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2675 days ago

29 January 2017 (F) - I have have asked for advice before here and wanted to come back a year later to ask maybe what I am doing wrong. I am a woman in my early 30s that has given up on love. I have only been with three men and two had a relationship with. Through t...

My girlfriend is in hospital and her family are keeping me in the dark

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 2848 days ago

28 January 2017 (M) - I have no idea what to do to deal with this situation. I have been with my girlfriend since 2011, she was 18 at the time we started. We have had a great relationship, typical ups and downs, but all in all great. Her family has never warmed up ...

When will he tell me he loves me, I don't want to say it first this time?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2860 days ago

28 January 2017 (F) - When can I expect my boyfriend to tell me he loves me? What are some signs that will indicate that he feels that way? (even if not saying it) I'm well on my way to falling in love with him, but don't want to say it first this time. I have sai...

I don't know how to relax and be content in the moment.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2856 days ago

28 January 2017 (F) - I've been dating a great guy for a few months now. In the first few weeks, we had 2 minor communication mishaps, but it's generally been smooth sailing. My friends and family like him, and his like me. It's the first healthy relationship I'v...

I need help to face my fears so I can ask her out!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2856 days ago

28 January 2017 (M) - Hey ppl, I need some advice. I'll try to keep it short. I like a girl. I have a bad case of social anxiety. I think she used to like me too but think I've waited too long and she's loosing/lost interest.I get to see her once a week. Most times...

I'm having doubts about his ability to stay faithful

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2856 days ago

28 January 2017 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for about 8/9 months now. He is 29 and I'm 31. He is into sex a lot and has a really high sex drive. He needs to have sex everyday plus masturbate once a day on top of that. I am not always up for sex everyday, ...

He has told me he no longer loves me ... but we have been happier than ever.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2857 days ago

28 January 2017 (F) - I am having some troubles with my fiancé. I am 22 years old and we have been together for four years now, we also live together and have a mortgage on our own house. Over the pst few months he keeps saying things like "I need some space" and "I wa...

I'm a sex addict and now my boyfriend is angry and withholding sex from me

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2856 days ago

28 January 2017 (F) - Hi all. Im stuck in a situation that is difficult for me to talk about due to embarrassment. Im a sex addict and have been dating the same man for going on 5 years now. At first, our sex life was incredible. I thanked god for sending me a man that ...

I kissed Max on the cheek and Mark thinks I cheated!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2857 days ago

28 January 2017 (F) - Hi, me and this boy have known each other for around 3 years now. Lets say his name is mark, me and mark have been quite good mates. The other day he asked me to be his girlfriend and I said yes. I told him not to tell anyone we were together ...

Could my bf's avoidance of my compliments suggest he is cheating?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2848 days ago

28 January 2017 (F) - I have been suspecting my bf has been unfaithful recently. Just sense a change. When having a text conversation this evening, I went on about how lucky I am to have him. What a good guy he is and how I am glad he is not like other men. I sai...

How come I am not heartbroken?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2857 days ago

28 January 2017 (M) - I had a huge crush on a girl for about 5 years. I went to school with her in high school, but now that I'm out I haven't spoken to her in person just over text. Recently I found out she just got a boyfriend, at first I thought I'd be all heart ...

Can a man go from not wanting a relationship to wanting one?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2860 days ago

27 January 2017 (F) - was dateing a man for a few months . I told him I wanted a relationship an he then told me he didn't want one . I broke it off with him . but he still tried to keep in contact with me . so now almost two years later . he contact me we talk . he then ...

Is my boyfriend pathetic? Or just stuck in his life at the moment?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2857 days ago

27 January 2017 (F) - Ok, so...my boyfriend's truck broke down this past summer and I got a car about two or three months after. He could have got another by now had he saved better but idk. He spends his money on weed mostly and his phone bill and car insurance bill ...

He left me because I wouldn't have sex with him.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2857 days ago

27 January 2017 (F) - . my partner left me. because i dnt want sex with him before marriage. but he want. thats why he leave me. he switched off his phone. but i love him. . i want to talk to him. i feel alone without him. i love him. i want to die.plz help me....

He gave me deadline to talk to my ex and when things didn't work out he ended things with me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2862 days ago

27 January 2017 (F) - I need help to figure out who is the wrong one here. I'm 39 divorced and have a 10 years old daughter. My relationship with my ex is peaceful and it's just because we have a child together. I started dating for the first time, 3 years after divorce, ...

Should I assume that he is with me, and willing to date me, despite the fact that I do not look like the women he prefers?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2861 days ago

26 January 2017 (F) - None of the women in the porn he looks at are anything close to me physically , and I do mean literally not one out of thousands , so it's no coincidence. Does this mean he is with me despite my appearance and I'm not what he prefers physical...

How do I tell my parents about his age and past?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2857 days ago

26 January 2017 (F) - I need some advice on how to talk to my parents. I'm 23 and an only child. I'm very close to my parents and I know they love me very much. Ive always been a good kid and never really have my parents any trouble. I love out of town about 7 hou...

Has anyone else dealt with something like this? My first serious girlfriend has since come out as a lesbian.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2861 days ago

26 January 2017 (M) - I was a little bit of a late bloomer but in college I finally met a really amazing girl who became my first serious girlfriend and by that I mean that she was all my firsts: first kiss, first love, first sexual encounter. She had been with one...

I found out my brother has been having an affair. Should I tell his wife or keep quiet?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2862 days ago

26 January 2017 (F) - My brother has been having an affair with a single woman who is 15 years his junior. It has been ongoing for more than 3 years. I am very close to his wife and kids and accidentally found out about it last week when he sent me a text meant for h...

Do you think she is too young to get married ? we live together.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2862 days ago

25 January 2017 (M) - My gf and I will be having our second anniversary in march. I'm know that she is he girl for me and she has told me that she wants to marry me. She's only 23. We live together in a rented apartment, we pay bills and both work. Do you think she ...

Really nervous about trying a strap-on for the first time. Do I bring up the topic before or during sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2863 days ago

25 January 2017 (F) - Hey dear community! I've a girlfriend (she's 25) for a while now (about 1.5 years) and all in all its pretty awsome. The sex is really amazing, far better than anything I ever had and she is feeling the same. We really care for each other, even...

Did my words really crush his wish to marry me? Or was he looking for an excuse to break up, and blame me, for his own reasons?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2861 days ago

25 January 2017 (F) - I met a guy on dating site he is from Europe and I'm from Africa. We met in person 3 times, he met my family twice and its been 19 months since we are in a relationship. Before 4 months he gave me an engagement ring and I accept we have differe...

26 years old and never been on a date

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2862 days ago

24 January 2017 (M) - I'm a 26 year old guy and have never dated. When I was in high school, I was pretty much an outcast and girls just laughed at me. One time a girl made me think she wanted to go to a dance with her and asked me to meet her there. She showed up with ...

Should we talk things over or let him go ? His lies and his baby Mama have helped drive us apart.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2864 days ago

24 January 2017 (F) - MODNOTE: two near identical questions combined with additional material from the second question combined below with the first question . . . . . . . . . Dear Cupid Am a 40 year old female with two children from my previous marriage. When I los...

I'm having trouble coping with my boyfriend's past. He was involved with several of my friends!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2864 days ago

24 January 2017 (F) - Hello! I have been dating my boyfriend for a year now and before this we were good friends for 6 years. I am having trouble over some things he did in his past and I have struggled with these throughout all of our relationship. These prob...

Just found out that my LDR is happily married. Do I confront him?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2862 days ago

23 January 2017 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for 6 months.. We are in a LDR, but he's very caring, sweet and romantic...keeps in touch. But one thing that continually bothers me is that he never calls me at night! Two days back, I was viewing his profile on s...

Are my friends wrong? Is this a sugar daddy relationship? Or do I tell him how I really feel?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2864 days ago

23 January 2017 (F) - I moved to a different province for school. I ended up meeting an older guy , he's 41. We decided to not focus on labels and to just have fun , we both agreed that because of our age difference changes are our relationship wouldn't probably last ...

Is it degrading to let a guy ejaculate on you?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2863 days ago

23 January 2017 (F) - When I was 15, my mother sat me down and had "the talk". She is very open and liberal, so we ended up talking about everything from sex and birth control to relationships and life in general. One of the things she was adamant about was that por...

Should I fight for this relationship? And if I do how do I show him that I really care?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2864 days ago

23 January 2017 (F) - 3 months ago I met someone and for first time in a very long time, I started having feelings for a guy. I fell in love very hard. But feels like I keep doing stuff to mess it up. He says he loves me so much and I am his world but also feels like ...

When should I tell this guy about my health problems?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2864 days ago

23 January 2017 (F) - I've got a couple of health conditions that impact day to day life, one with my breathing and one to do nerve damage causing a lot of pain. I've started seeing a new guy and don't know when I should bring these things up in conversation, like should ...

My boyfriend's parents are strict and I'm not sure what to do anymore

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2864 days ago

23 January 2017 (F) - Hi everyone, I'm kind of new to this so I apologize if this is a bit unorganized. My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year and a half and besides the ups and downs we are very much in love with each other and even plan to have a f...

How can an older woman feel sexy when their partner obesesses over girls 20 years younger?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2865 days ago

23 January 2017 (F) - How does an older woman ever feel good enough or sexy enough especially when her partner is obsessed with watching women twenty years younger than her. I know the usual answer is to ' realise he is with you and if he wanted that he would have that ' ...

My boyfriend prefers to be with my brother and housemate than with me.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2850 days ago

23 January 2017 (F) - My boyfriend will spend more time with my Brother and Housemate then he does with me. My brother and housemate has been committing on my body appearance lately and my boyfriend doesn't say anything. I use to be extremely under weight but i'm now ...

Everything was great .... except the sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2864 days ago

22 January 2017 (F) - Hi. I am seeing someone and we get on so well. Everything is great. But we had sex for the first time and he treated me like a one night stand. He was just concerned about having an orgasm. He has never been in a relationship before. I know the ...

We need couples counselling but all his nit-picking is wearing me down. How should I handle this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2864 days ago

22 January 2017 (F) - I live with my (16 years older) boyfriend. We've been together for a few years, but we're not married yet and I'm pretty sure I know why we haven't taken that step yet. He has openly stated that he's concerned about my absent-mindedness and ...

I like this guy I'm dating, but the sex is nice but not amazing. How do I discuss this with him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2864 days ago

22 January 2017 (F) - I have just started dating a truly lovely guy, he is adorable and I really enjoy spending time with him. The problem is, things aren't totally electric in the bedroom. I'm quite a sexual person and chemistry and sexual connection is really important ...

How can I tell him that I suffer anxiety without making it sound like an excuse for needy behaviour?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2866 days ago

22 January 2017 (?) - Hi everyone, I suffer from anxiety, and I've suffered it for a fair few years. I've had a boyfriend now for a few months. I haven't told him yet. So when I get anxious I tend to text him quite a bit and I've noticed that his texts are becoming l...

Trust issues. Is it just my anxiety or should I be worried?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2866 days ago

22 January 2017 (F) - This is a little bit of a long story. My boyfriend used to be in a band, and is still in contact with a girl who was really into them. She lives really really far away, and only knew about them because a band member was planning on moving away t...

I need to let go of the past. Can someone give me some advice on how to do that?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2866 days ago

22 January 2017 (M) - Me and my significant other have been in a relationship for 5 months, however, I've been in love with her (the love was for the most part unrequited) for about 3 years. We've started to plan a future with each other. But recently, we dis...

How can I get him back? Or has the damage been done?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2863 days ago

22 January 2017 (F) - My boyfriend broke up with me tonight and its my fault. I don't know how to fix this situation . I was with my boyfriend when 2 male friends who have a crush on me wrote me on Facebook. Ive known them since before my current relationship...

Am I a coward with a cold heart, for the way I choose to end relationships? How should I do it?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2865 days ago

21 January 2017 (F) - i,am a 50 year old female, been in a relationship for five months,he is really nice, romantic, but he isn't my type. I like big bald football type of guys, he is the cowboys type, good looking, he does all the things a woman wants in a man,so h...

My ldr partner wants to do fun time while apart but I feel extremely unconfident doing so since he watches so much porn

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2865 days ago

21 January 2017 (F) - My partner is overseas and wants me to video chat him and call him for fun time . The problem is that that he watches loads of porn and I can't help but feel self conscious that I could never be as sexy or anywhere near as good at exciting him as ...

My boyfriend and his ex are now talking every day and I am not comfortable with it

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2863 days ago

21 January 2017 (F) - Hi there. Well something is bothering me and I don't know if it's ok for me to be upset or not. About a week ago, my boyfriends ex girlfriends grandmother died. Her and him haven't really spoken for the last year or so. But she called him to let him ...