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22-25,
*ettybuttercup
writes:Hi, me and this boy have known each other for around 3 years now. Lets say his name is mark, me and mark have been quite good mates. The other day he asked me to be his girlfriend and I said yes. I told him not to tell anyone we were together because I thought my best friend would try and split us up and he agreed. But a week later, my best friend was quite angry, do I asked her what was wrong, and she said "you and Mark were going out with each other and you didn't tell me" I apologised to her , she said he told her on the day we got together. Me and mark had an argument over it and he said "I forgot i told her" so I called him a liar as he lied to my face. Because I was angry, I broke up with him. My best friend dared me to kiss a boy lets call him Max, on the cheek. So I kissed him in the cheek and then my best friend told Mark that I cheated on him. I told Mark I kissed Max on the cheek and now he isn't speaking to me. I still like Mark and want to restart with a new relationship with him. But I don't know what to day because I've already apologised and I am scared of him saying something horrible to me.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (31 January 2017):
 It sounds to me like Mark and your bestfriend like each other and are trying to make each other jealous. Maybe you should stay single for the time being as you are still very young and don't want to be getting caught up in so much drama.
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reader, Andie's Thoughts +, writes (28 January 2017):
 Please don't take this the wrong way, OP, but none of you are mature enough for a relationship. This is playground drama. Daring to kiss other people on the lips or cheek isn't something people do when they're mature enough to date. Your friend is also spiteful and jealous, hence her trouble-making.
You and mark broke up over something silly because that's what happens with relationships, at your age. You weren't even really together.
Don't rush life, OP - dating is for when you're older and are more mature. You're mature enough for your age, but not for relationships. Let this crush slide.
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