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My boyfriend prefers to be with my brother and housemate than with me.

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Question - (23 January 2017) 9 Answers - (Newest, 8 February 2017)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

My boyfriend will spend more time with my Brother and Housemate then he does with me. My brother and housemate has been committing on my body appearance lately and my boyfriend doesn't say anything. I use to be extremely under weight but i'm now 128lb, I sometimes think my boyfriend comments about me with them while i'm not around because lately he doesn't seem to want to see me or be around me, Anytime he comes to the house I will end up staying in my room while they are all in the living room, if i sit and try hanging with them they end up being silent so i just go back to my room where i can hear them start talking again.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2017):

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So I took about everyone's advice and him and I broke up, I starting flirting with anther guy, but now the new guy and him are "friendly" with each other but now He wants to flirting with me again

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (24 January 2017):

aunt honesty agony auntSo then I think you should end it. He obviously has no interest in being with you, therefore end things. Get out off your bedroom and make friends.

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A male reader, N91 United Kingdom +, writes (24 January 2017):

N91 agony auntYou're clearly not happy and he isn't willing to talk about the situation so what other options do you have?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2017):

Today he picked up my house mate and they we bowling and out to eat, 3 hours later they come back and my Boyfriend just gave me a side hug and left.. didn't say "hey/Hi" to me and didn't say "bye" back to me

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A male reader, N91 United Kingdom +, writes (23 January 2017):

N91 agony auntI agree with the others. I think it may be time to give him his marching orders.

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A male reader, BrownWolf Canada +, writes (23 January 2017):

BrownWolf agony aunt

What's the problem?? He has just told you what he wants in his life right now...guy friends, not a girlfriend.

You want a boyfriend...he is not sitting around with your brothers. He is out there waiting for you to come find him.

The longer you wait, beating yourself up over this nonsense, the closer some other girl is getting to your Mr. Right. So, it's hunting season :)

If "one" man pays no attention to you...GOOD....There is a million more who will.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (23 January 2017):

eyeswideopen agony auntMaybe it is time to trade up Honey. Holed up in a room is no life especially at your age. You should be out meeting people and making memories. If you aren't having fun and enjoying life then it's time to change.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2017):

Iv tried talking to him about it and he didn't say anything, Now when he comes over for a quick stop by he just hang out with my brother and housemate, he doesn't talk of check up on my anymore.

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A male reader, N91 United Kingdom +, writes (23 January 2017):

N91 agony auntHave you raised the issue with him?

If you don't tell him you're not happy then how is he going to know?

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