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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hey ppl,I need some advice. I'll try to keep it short. I like a girl. I have a bad case of social anxiety. I think she used to like me too but think I've waited too long and she's loosing/lost interest.I get to see her once a week. Most times I give her an awkward smile and say hi. She replicates.She's initiated chat conversations with me. She's told me about some very personal struggles she's going through and how she's doing it alone. But that was months ago. I want to get closer to her. What should I talk to her about when we see each other now? Could you guys help me out with a mock text conversation an interested guy would have with the girl he fancies? My biggest fear is that it feels like she thinks that I'm not interested because of my guarded behavior around her. Kindly help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2017): I'd like too add. Guys like you who are good and worthy hesitate to ask. And we girls end up being asked out by confident jerks, dating them and getting hurt. It's about time good guys put in efforts. Or should we girls only depend on our parents to get a 'nice guy'
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2017):
You know..as an indian girl I'll tell you. Just be direct to her. I don't mean say "I love you'. but LEt her know you like her. Ask her out for a coffee/lunch. Tell her that you like her and want to get to know her better if she also likes you.
Why are you asking for a conversation? Be natural. Talk about normal stuff. Be yourself. If you are shy, tell her that you are shy. We like men who are themselves and some of us girls like shy guys even more since we think they are usually sweet and genuine guys.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (1 February 2017):
 You: Hi X how are you today?
You: If you are free later would you like to go out for lunch we can have a catch up as I haven't saw you in so long? Would be nice to chat.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2017): Just say "Hello, great to see you. How are you?" (Give her a hug, nice smile etc.) Then just ask "Would you like to grab coffee with me some time later in the week?"
It really is that simple. If she likes you, she will say yes... arrange a time etc. Just do it in the immortal words of a ubiquitous advertising slogan.
Oh.. and good luck!!!
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reader, Denizen  +, writes (1 February 2017):
 I have seen this question before, and by someone from your country. There are answers that have already been given on this so please check the files for the advice already given.
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