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Archived questions from: April, 2012 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

I have a feeling she's not as in to me as she claims

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

30 April 2012 (M) - Okay, recently a close friend and I decided that because we each like each other so much, we'd try dating. The thing is, since our first date we don't talk nearly as much as we used to. I mean, since that day, it's been entirely me who initiates...

Is it normal to be scared of having sex with a new guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

30 April 2012 (F) - I have a question. Is it normal for me to be scared to have sex with a new guy? I've been having sex with 1 guy for 3 years and I had sex with him the most. He was the 2nd guy I ever had sex with. So I was wondering is it normal? I've met new guys...

How do I win my girlfriends heart completely?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

30 April 2012 (M) - have been dating my girlfriend for the past 5months n we seem going on very well.am the type of person who always like to chat with her but it seems she is the exact opposite of me..she never mind not talking to me the whole day and even if she does ...

We are in a LDR relationship but never met, how do we talk?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

30 April 2012 (F) - I've been in a long distance relationship for 15 months now. We are in different countries and have never met yet. Lately, I've noticed that things arent what they used to be. Earlier we couldnt stop talking, now its like sometimes we run out of ...

Could he be realising and reciprocating my feelings? or is he just enjoying the attention?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

30 April 2012 (F) - Dear cupid, I am so in love with a guy I have known as hi friends for 4 years.We have been flirting more and more and well, now we even joke about him being my long awaited guy. But he tells me for him, sex is an important part of the relation...

He wants to move in asap, but no mention of marriage. If we move in now, will we still marry?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

30 April 2012 (F) - Hi there. My boyfriend of 2 years wants us to live together and I want to wait until we're married. I know for sure if I said let's move in together he would do it tomorrow but I have realised over the past month or two he's not exactly rushing ...

My parents cant stand the thought of me having a boyfriend! They want me to marry a good Indian boy, but I'm old enough to decide what I want

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

30 April 2012 (F) - Hi, I'm 24 years old. I've got a degree, job and unfortunately for Indian parents a boyfriend. I've tried my hardest to tell them I was in a relationship. I would tell them then the next time they saw me they would act like they had forgotte...

He only talks about his "feelings" for me when he's drunk!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4595 days ago

30 April 2012 (F) - Hey, I really need some good advice, I'm really confused! I think I'm in love with my friend but I don't know if he feels the same, I have had sex with him a few times but we were drunk. But before we slept together we were always flirting with eac...

I stole money from my ex girlfriend and gambled it away. I regret my actions now, how can I win her back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4034 days ago

30 April 2012 (M) - Hi I just want to know if I can get my ex back, we were together for 3 and a half years and broke up in november because I stole money from her the second time, we owned a house together 2 years ago and I stole money from the account and gambled it, ...

How do I tell this person whom I love and care for and WANT as a major part of my life, that I'm having doubts about it right now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

30 April 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half and have a great relationship (given that every relationship has ups and downs at some point). I honestly believe that he is the person I want to spend the rest of my life with and we've ...

Mixed Messages

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

29 April 2012 (F) - So...as these questions always start, there is this guy...he is a couple of years older than me, and I think he fancies me as much as I fancy him, however I am just not sure. I am 21, have never had a boyfriend, let alone been on a date, and I ha...

How do I see this boy but not upset my friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

29 April 2012 (F) - The thing is there's this boy, I met him at my friends house about a month ago. Around 5 or 6 weeks ago he got with my friend and they did things together, but after a while he decided he didn't want to see her anymore. As her friend I know she had ...

B/f just lost his job. How can I help him through this tough time without really getting on his nerves?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

29 April 2012 (F) - I'm in a long distance relationship and my boyfriend of over 9 years just lost his job last week. He just told me on Thursday. I am in shock since that day and I can't believe it. He is 52 and it is not easy to find a new job in the current economy ...

Does a lack of sex justify cheating in a committed relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

29 April 2012 (F) - Could the lack of sex in my relationship have caused my boyfriend to cheat? We were together for 2 years and we both live at home with our parents. We both come from very strict households which made it hard for us to have that "quality time" to...

My ex wants to come clean about why he cheated on me,should I talk to him or let it go?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

29 April 2012 (F) - my ex and I had a 4 year relationship that ended because he cheated on me. I cut off all communication after we broke up until he posted a long status on Facebook about our relationship, and how he made mistakes and his mistakes shouldn't be coun...

Is this violent jealous abusive boyfriend worth the trouble? What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

29 April 2012 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for a bit over a year, he always accused me of cheating. I don't know why he would even have the idea, I have a full time job and I would spend my days off with him at his place, he has the key to my place and he woul...

Why do girls complain about guy's cheating, yet they do far worse to the good guys who don't

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

29 April 2012 (M) - I don't quite understand what is going on. I try, so very hard to maintain a relationship. I always go into it with all the hope and care I can muster. Now I'm 26 years old, and I'm single. I've been beaten, broken, crushed, decimated, maimed, and ...

I don't have the urges to have sex but want to find someone who makes me happy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4595 days ago

29 April 2012 (M) - Hello guys and girls, I kinda need help. I have been sexually inactive for over a year but yet, I don't feel the urges to have sex. I don't understand, now, i'm more then focused now on finding someone that makes me happy, and that I can return s...

How do I get back the person I met?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4595 days ago

29 April 2012 (M) - im 17 in a relationship with a 20 year old she has a daughter thats 2...weve been together for a year and a half for months we were only friends with a lot of respect towards each other .i really love her with everything i got and not just her,her ...

Am I not over my ex? I'm having problems with me relationship. Could it be that 7 year relationship with ex is the problem

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4595 days ago

29 April 2012 (F) - I have been in a relationship for seven years. We are high school sweethearts and have been on and off a couple of times during high school. Four months ago, we started to have sex. I was incredibly scared of sex - even had a phobia of it for a ve...

How long should I wait before writing him off?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

29 April 2012 (F) - Okay, so I have a question about Men and calling. First let me tell you the details: last weekend me and a bunch of coworkers all went out for drinks. During the night I stated talking to one of the guys (someone I had previously only known in ...

His move will cause us to be apart. Why is he acting like the change is my fault?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4588 days ago

28 April 2012 (F) - This is complicated and for length I may have left important parts out, so bear with me. Basically my boyfriend got a job in a city. I do not want to live in the city and he is giving me an ultimatum that either I move there with him or he'll break ...

I found he did some "swinging" two years into our dating... and not from him. How should I feel?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

28 April 2012 (F) - Dear Cupid, I'm in an exclusive relationship going on two years. We both own our homes. He is divorced and my husband passed away. He never would give me much information on why they divorced and claimed he never cheated on her, they just gre...

Why can't I date a black guy?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

28 April 2012 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for a month now. Put simply, I'm white and he's black. My dad insists that he's not racist, but he seems funny about it. He says there are risks involved in society. At the end of the day I really like my boyfriend, I ...

Am I just being blinded by love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

28 April 2012 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for 4 months now and I do genuinely love her but a couple months ago she got really drunk on a night out with her friends and ending up dancing and kissing another guy AND they exchanged numbers. Realising what she had ...

She gets upset with me when I talk about what I mind in our relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

28 April 2012 (M) - I have a problem with what appears to me to be minimal care and concern about different matters in my relationship. I talk openly with my fiance about things that occur in our relationship but almost every time I do she gets upset with me, or she ...

I'm filthy rich and very independant and it seems that most guys are intimidated by the fact that they have nothing to offer me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

28 April 2012 (?) - I'm in my early thirties, I've never been in a serious relationship and once I get to know someone it never develops into anything and it's generally over within a month. I'm pretty but I don't dress to show my assets, don't sleep with guys for the ...

My boyfriend is a great guy, and is definitely someone I can see myself settling down with BUT I really like my guy friend and want to pursue things with him. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

28 April 2012 (F) - I've dated a lot of guys over the past year, but finally picked someone I could see myself having a future with. He's a great guy! We've been dating for about three months, he's really intelligent (working on his PHD), attractive, athletic, and has ...

My mom will not let me date this man

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

28 April 2012 (F) - hi,i have a crush..he's Islam while i'm Christian. I do really like this guy,he's funny,cute,everything.. But i'm afraid my mom will get mad,he hates "islam people" sorry.. But this guy,he so knid,loving..I don't know what to do ...

I was declared the most beautiful in my class. Why don't I have a boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

28 April 2012 (F) - hi am a 20yrs, female never had a boyfriend,though i have been asked out but its not by the guys i want the ones i want never even notice me.i actually got my first peck recently from a guy i thought liked me but he just wanted sex so when he didnot ...

I still have feelings for him, but I'm a bit apprehensive of getting hurt again.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

28 April 2012 (F) - Hi, and thank you in advance. I've known this male for several yrs through a friend. He's 15 years older than I and we would talk here and there. We ended up becoming friends on facebook and began dating. We seemed to really connect. He woul...

Why doesn't he talk to me yet he smiles when his friend talk about me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

28 April 2012 (F) - There's a guy that I met at school who is known to be really reserved. By reserved, I mean...well he only talks when he wants to talk if you catch my drift. Like you could call his name a gazillion times and if he doesn't wanna talk to you he's not ...

Girls would you be OK with this? Guys how do you feel about men having strippers at a bachelor's party?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

28 April 2012 (F) - I am just asking this question out of curiousity. It is for both men and women. How do you feel about men having strippers at a bachelor's party? Maybe it is because I have low self-esteem but if my fiance was enjoying that kind of show, I woul...

Am I just worried over nothing? Her love and appreciation only happens on line

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4597 days ago

28 April 2012 (M) - I've been with my girl friend for a while and i get texts, emails, messages on facebook, all telling me how great i am. What a nice kind guy I am. And a true gentleman. She tells me she enjoys it when i come over and spend time with her and her ...

Does my potentially bi friend like me? He has a girl friend, but he maybe likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4597 days ago

28 April 2012 (M) - My friend that i've known for about 6 months is bi...i think. I mean, I never thought he was, but people told me he was and then the other day we were talking in a group about girls we found attractive and then he started to list guys too. (Btw he's ...

Why a 180 from what she said she wanted a week ago? Did I do something wrong?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

28 April 2012 (M) - Ive been with my girl friend for a few months. She asked me to move in with her and her children. This happened about a week ago. Everything was falling into place. i treat her like a queen and her children are treated the same way. I do everythi...

How do I get out of this shy slump?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

28 April 2012 (M) - i have this problem with girls. i am 16 and last year at this time this girl and i liked each other. well...... it was the end of the school year and i had many opportunites to ask her out but i wimped out. i havent seen her at all this year accept ...

What are the signs a guy loves you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

27 April 2012 (F) - what are the sign that a boy loves you ......

My friend is dating my ex. I want to hate her but I miss her!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

27 April 2012 (F) - A couple of months back, one of my friends decided she wanted to be with my ex boyfriend as she had strong feelings for him (which i knew nothing about until it was too late) He and I had only just decided that we weren't going to stay in touch an...

This jerk is dating behind my back!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

27 April 2012 (F) - This guy that I am seeing is on a dating site. A friend found it and showed me. I Hate him so much for leading me on. He dosent know I know that he on a dating site.I thought it was old but he just logged in hours before so I know he uses it. My ...

Why do men only ever approach me for casual sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

27 April 2012 (F) - Hi all, I'm 21 and have never been in a relationship. Nor have I ever been truly asked out or taken out on a date. I've had sex and guys pursue me with only this reason in mind it seems. I'm not a whore though and don't sleep with anyone/ever...

Should I keep doing No Contact and wait for him to contact me first?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4598 days ago

27 April 2012 (F) - My boyfriend (or ex) and I have been together on/off for over 2 years. We are both in our mid 20s. Our relationship is serious that we actually talked about our future togehter like getting married etc.. Everything was okay until a few months ago...

I'm curious about how others would describe the way it feels when their significant other touches them

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

27 April 2012 (F) - I'm curious about how others would describe the way it feels when their significant other touches them. :) I know when my girlfriend touches me, it's almost indescribable--she'll stroke my back, shoulders, arms, hands etc., sometimes really lightly ...

Incompatible conflict styles? He's avoidant, I'm confrontational. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4598 days ago

27 April 2012 (F) - Hello, My live-in boyfriend and I (been together for a few years) had a huge argument last night that started right before we went to sleep. He's very much the conflict-avoidant person whereas I like to talk about the issue until it is resolved. ...

I want a healthy relationship with both my mom and my bf, but I feel like I have to choose.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

27 April 2012 (F) - Insight from my fellow Asian American ladies would be most helpful but insight from anyone would be great! I'm 21 and my mom is very overbearing. I mentioned my Asian American ethnicity because Asian parents often control their kids much more t...

I cant get this out of my mind, please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4598 days ago

26 April 2012 (F) - Hello all. I am in a bit of a situation here. I used to date a guy online few years ago and it just ended. And few months ago he added me on facebook. We talked,exchanged numbers,texted and flirted all the time. Then one day he started talking dirty ...

Can you make somebody love you?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

26 April 2012 (M) - Hi, I am confused. I know this girl who I have feelings for. But she has no emotional connection to me. She is not interested in dating me. A friend of mine and I saw the movie Cinema Paradisio, where the main character sits under the window of a ...

Why hasn't he asked me to be his girlfriend yet?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

26 April 2012 (F) - i have been dating a great guy for 2 months now and we agreed to only see each other, but he has never asked me to be his girlfriend. could this be because he thinks it is still too soon? or maybe he isnt over his ex, who he broke up with at ...

Should I give it a go with him? Or let it go? I'm worried we are too different and he would hurt me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4598 days ago

26 April 2012 (F) - im 20 years old, but never been kissed and never had a bf. Sometimes i feel im weird, coz i always try to make myself stay away from the guys i like. And refuse them when they ask me out! just few weeks ago i met a cute guy in club who asked m...

I thought he liked me too, why is he pulling away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

26 April 2012 (F) - I'm 24 and currently living abroad. I'm currently seeing a guy that is also residing in the same country. We are both leaving in 3 months. However, we've began to get to know each other and gone on a few dates for the past couple of months. I met ...