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Archived questions from: 9 April, 2012 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

He doesn't believe in living together before marriage

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4614 days ago

9 April 2012 (F) - I have been in a relationship for a year now. Things are pretty great between us and I am considering living together but he seems to disagree. Both of us currently work part time and live at home, whilst saving up for a deposit. However, usually ...

How do I become a jerk to attract girls?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3953 days ago

9 April 2012 (M) - what does it take to get a gf? im honest, nice, smart and above average looking. i am 16 but it seems that guys who are jerks usually attract girls attention. How do i do that?...

My boyfriend's ex is telling their children she won't be their mom if they talk to me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4614 days ago

9 April 2012 (F) - Hiya, hope you can help me cos I am torn here... I have been with my fella for 9 months, very happy togeether and planning our future together. However, he has 2 wonderful children who I adore and they like me. However his ex is tearing me apart...

Girlfriend has low self esteem and doesn't believe me when I say she's beautiful

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4614 days ago

9 April 2012 (M) - How can I boost my girlfriend's self confidence? We have been together for three years and over time she has gained some weight. She is still as beautiful as ever but she is really down about the weight. I keep telling her she is perfect but she ...

Is every relationship different?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4615 days ago

9 April 2012 (F) - Is every relationship different?? and when I say that I mean on how quickly things move or how slowly?? I got a promotion at work back in September and therefore moved departments which is where I met this guy (whom I dont actually work al...

How do you know when someone really has integrity?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4611 days ago

9 April 2012 (F) - I believe people should do what they say or promise to do unless something unavoidable prevents it, from the big stuff to the small stuff. I try to do this and I try to be considerate. How come people can just, with apparently little discomfo...

They say you shouldn't settle but if you don't, maybe you end up alone??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4614 days ago

9 April 2012 (M) - Trying to keep this really short... Fell for my female best friend, really heavily. She didn't feel the same. We've kept the friendship and are very close and I couldn't imagine life without her (she has said same to me). I have tried dating ...

He shows less interest do I just let him go and stay friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4615 days ago

9 April 2012 (F) - I have been seeing this guy for approximately 6 months and it was going really well saw each other alot, texted/called etc, That has slowly decreased now but he still texts me weekly it seems and asks me if i fancy meeting up etc so anyway the la...

How can I have feelings for him when I barely know him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4615 days ago

9 April 2012 (F) - There this guy i like, I think he is single aleast i hope so because if he is not single i will never pursue. But he seems to be interested in me always flirting and smiling saying hello. I like him too, but the strange thing is I am starting to ...

I lied to her and told her I am still a virgin

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4614 days ago

9 April 2012 (M) - Before I officially went out with my girlfriend, I was a virgin. However, during the time I was getting to know her (we weren't going out yet), I had sex with two other girls. A few weeks after we actually decided to make it official that we...

Her past and her actions got to me so I ended things. Was I wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4615 days ago

9 April 2012 (M) - so i started seeing a girl as friends id heard a lot about her ( she's easy,been with this person,been with that person etc etc) but i didn't care because i make up my own mind about people and me and this girl got on great so after about a month of ...

He's cleaned up his act, but sometimes his past behaviour still bothers me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4615 days ago

9 April 2012 (F) - I have been going out with my boyfriend for about 3.5years. For the first year of our relationship he flirted (quite inappropriately) quite a lot with a large number of girls, including ex's. It ended in a massive argument and since then he's grown ...

My biological clock is ticking, and he just rolls his eyes!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4615 days ago

9 April 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years. From the start he knew i wanted marriage and children some day. He also told me he wanted those things. Over time, this has gone to, wanting it, not wanting it, not sure, wanting it. He has also ...

He comes to my place, eats, uses utilities but says I am ungrateful for not paying when we go out!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4615 days ago

9 April 2012 (F) - My boyfriend stays over at my house over the weekend. I recently found out that he thinks i am being ungrateful because he pays for dinner and i dont offer any money to put to it. This is because he tells me it is on him or he'll buy dinner. Money ...

He gets defensive when I mention his changed behaviour

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

9 April 2012 (F) - hi my partner is been slightly distant with me, its only been recent. but he hass his phone 24/7, when he has no credit he is fine, but when he does have credit he takes his phone everywhere and takes forever in the toilet. he cant get on the ...

Should I have some sexual fun before I settle into marriage?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4609 days ago

9 April 2012 (F) - Hi everyone, Better go though me situation a bit. I'm in a 2.5 year long distance relationship. Been through good time and hard time. We meet every 4-5 months and make it a trip to somewhere away from home. We last met three months ago and g...

Is he serious or am I getting played?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4615 days ago

9 April 2012 (F) - I’ve had feelings for my friend’s ex-boyfriend for a while. A couple days back me and him and some friends were celebrating the end of classes with some alcohol, and we all got pretty buzzed, but I ended up not feeling well, so I spent the night at ...

I feel I'm wasting my time telling him the good stuff!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4615 days ago

9 April 2012 (F) - Hi,I would like some advice on how to really convince someone that they mean a great deal to you.everyday i don't see my guy i always tell him how much i miss him and his cuddles and kisses but he never believes me,he is always saying i just say ...

I ended it, and then I said I didn't want to lose him and he said you already have!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4614 days ago

9 April 2012 (F) - On friday night i ended things with the guy i was seeing for 2months. He said he was sure he was ready for a relationship and i wasn't prepared to wait around. At the time i told him i couldn't be friends as i would be upset when he started seeing ...

An old friend kissed me on the lips!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4612 days ago

9 April 2012 (F) - I am in a commited relationship to my boyfriend of almost a year now. I would never even think or barely look at another man. I went to a party and an old friend of mine whom i hadnt seen in a few years, who was really drunk at the time i arrived, ...

I don't know what he meant!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4613 days ago

9 April 2012 (F) - I have been seeing this man for about a year now. The other night he made a comment/question that I'm a little confused about. This is what he said " if you have so many options then what are you doing here with me?". I was not sure how to answer ...

How does my friend always get the guy she wants?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4615 days ago

9 April 2012 (F) - How does my friend always seem to attract the guy she wants? We'll be in a club and she'll see a guy she thinks is good looking, instantly her mind set is 'I have to have him'. And I don't know how she does it but she does, the guy always ends up ...