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I'm bi, do I have any chance with this girl?

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Question - (31 March 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 31 March 2011)
A female Singapore age 26-29, *ampurplesea writes:

I'm girl and I'm bi. I'm in love with this girl, who is my normal friend (she only comes to talk to me in break time and we're not in the same class. ) she is straight and doesn't know I'm bi.

she is kinda friendly, she always holds girl's hand and gives me some cute and flirty nicknames.

today, when she held my hand and called me "cutie", I told her in a playful way "don't touch me too much! otherwise I'll fall in love with ya!" then she answered, laughing "try! I'll let you love me." but after that, when I asked her "do you have any problems with gay or bi?" and she said "hm... I don't really like gay or bi, I'm just a girl and I like boys."

what do you think? pls help meee!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2011):

I think 's important to bare in mind you are only a young teenager. Peer pressure stops people your age saying their real opinion. I am Bi and in high school when someone asked me if i would ever kiss a girl i said i don't as i don't know what i'll like in the future and was mocked for ages by 2 girls in a 5 person friendship group.

Two of the five turned out to be gay and i know many straight girls to have fallen for bi or gay girls as a "one time thing" even though they like guys. Be careful though as i don't want to give you false hope as straight girls who end up in gay relationships are notorious for breaking hearts.

She may like you back but coming out is a hard experience as it is let alone with a side of rejection added on top once people know x

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A female reader, Molly0102 Singapore +, writes (31 March 2011):

I don't think so :( She already stated that she's straight. If se's bi she'll probably be dropping you hints. Sometimes I do such stuff with my friends too so I guess it's pretty normal for girls to do such stuff so maybe you shouldn't read too much into it unless you're really absolutely sure she likes you too.

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