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*ulfmic
writes:my friend had just been dumped by her boyfriend, and i have liked her for a long time now, however i want to know how she feels about me before asking her out, and if i do ask her out, how should ido it? i dont want to look a fool and then she laughs at me but i dont want to really blunt with it. i dont want to mess this up as she is really special to me and have been waiting for this for a long time. please help
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reader, bulfmic +, writes (10 January 2010):
bulfmic is verified as being by the original poster of the questiononly thing is, even this soon after the break up she is being asked out by people, which makes me wonder if i should just go for it now so im not 'beaten to it' or still wait it out
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reader, Lorenn. +, writes (9 January 2010):
i think it's sweet that you've waited. But it's not as easy as you think. You need to be there for her emotionally, but only as a friend at this stage; obviously she's going to be hurt and the best thing now is for her to know someone other than her girl mates is there for her. i'm sure she'll appreciate it, give her time, you should'nt rush too much, because they could get back together, but on the more fortunate side for you, they may not, and until she can finally deal with the complications i think that's when you should tell her how you feel properly, i hope it works out for you, and i hope my advice might have helped. Good luck!
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reader, ashleydn92093  +, writes (9 January 2010):
You should just ask her one day who she is liking. Most likely, she will ask you the same thing in return. Just tell her that you have had feelings for her for awhile now and that you have wanted to tell her, you just didn't know the right time to do so. Hope and pray it doesn't bother her. It never hurts to ask a question, and if it is going to do anything to your friendship... its her loss. Hope this was help.
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reader, bulfmic +, writes (9 January 2010):
bulfmic is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni understand that shes hurt, and I am currently one of the many people trying to help her through it, i will wait a couple of weeks for her to properly pull herself back together
thanks for the reply
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (9 January 2010):
I know you're eager to get her, but you need to give her time. She has just been hurt, so her feelings will be all over the place. Be there for her as a friend, but give her time until you talk to her.
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