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*ummer12
writes:This guy have been aggresively going after me but i rejected him. But after awhile I started to develop feelings for him. But he wasn't as responsive as before. He doesn't call me as much or asked me to hang out. So, I decided to be bold and tell him that I wanted to be his gf now over fb chat. He told that he like me but it is better off we discussed this in person. But since we're on winter break I have to wait awhile for him to discuss in person since he live in another state. However, during break he haven't call me once to see what am I up to. When we talked on aim, he only give me one word answer. I have no clue why is he doing this to me.Do you think I should confront him about his behavior?or leave him alone Reply to this Question
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reader, Denise32 +, writes (10 January 2010):
 No, don't confront him about his behavior.Look: he pursued you but you say you rejected him. Do you mean you actually told him in so many words that you were not interested, or did you simply ignore his calls and messages, and tell him you were "busy" if he suggested going out?As it stands now you have let him know that you want to be his girlfriend, and he said it would be better to talk it over in person. Since then his contact has been minimal. If you and he live in another state, LDR's are not all that easy when you can't meet much because of the distance.It sounds to me as though he is no longer interested. Leave it alone unless and until he gets in touch and wants to take up with you. I have to say though, that that is probably not going to happen.....
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