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writes:I guess i should start from the beginning, i like this boy, but he knows i used to like his rother, maybe this is why he can't be serious when i have asked him out before. but i just can't stop thinking about him, maybe he thinks i'm going to use him to get to his brother which would never happen. i know it sounds weird but i never felt like this towards his brother. but i need to tell him how i feel so he can take me seriously. the thing is i don't know him very well and i am very shy around new people. another thing is he's never alone, and the boy he is best friends with likes me! i just don't want to ruin what they have but i can't carry on living like this. please help, i would be very grateful, thanks :)
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reader, Lorenn. +, writes (9 January 2010):
Strange; but i was in the exact situation. Brothers and then the friend thing, and i was just as much confused! i think what you should do is definately tell the one you like how you feel. If you don't ask, you don't get? You never know, the feelings could be mutual. Confusion is natural anyway. So it's not your fault. And if he doesn't feel the same way, at least you tried, you could always be friends anyway. i hope it works out for you chika. x
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