New here? Register in under one minute   Already a member? Login245057 questions, 1084625 answers  

  DearCupid.ORG relationship advice
  Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!Search
 New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us .  Articles  . Sitemap

Handjobs and blowjobs?

Tagged as: Dating, Sex<< Previous question   Next question >>
Question - (9 January 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 12 January 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Ok, I'm almost 17 and i've never given a handjob or blowjob! Although my boyfriend has now suggested it, we've been going out for months now and I'm happy to do it. But I don't know where to start! I don't know what to do, I'm not thock lol, I just missed my sex education lessons at school bcos I did a college course. So let's start with hand jobs, how do I do it? Do I hold close or nearer the end? How much pressure do I put on and when do I finish? I know you should start slow and get faster but I've never seen it happen, so I'm a little unsure of how to go about it. And blow jobs, how on earth are you meant to deep throat? And only like half the penis would be in your mouth right?and obviously I would swallow, but how fast does it come and how much? Is it ok to do these things with a condom on or is that wierd? I need a lesson, seen as I never got one. Please let me know how it works, thankyou.

View related questions: blow-job, condom, hand-job, swallow

<-- Rate this Question

Reply to this Question


Share

Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question!

A male reader, bharat mehta India +, writes (12 January 2010):

bharat mehta agony auntKnowledge nowadays is very easy. well, all activity: hand/blow job, kissing, hugging, touching, rubbing, fall under single category: foreplay.

Use this word as search terms for Google search engine, You will be knowable within a hour of reading. It will take little longer time to digest all reading, still more time to integrate all experience into single concept 'love'

But sex itself is greatest teacher. Just lock your self with lover, and every good thing will come to you quite obediently, you just have to guided your thought and action through sense of pleasure only.

<-- Rate this answer

A female reader, lolli-pop United Kingdom +, writes (9 January 2010):

dont worry about if your doing it right. if you make ure own technique up it will be great. when you do it all just ask him what he likes. im sure your boyfriend is understanding so just ask him to guide you first.

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (9 January 2010):

DoubleM agony auntCertainly there must be some video instruction online, but I do NOT recommend pornography. Of course, some degree of instruction may derived from porno, but most is an ugly depiction.

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

Add your answer to the question "Handjobs and blowjobs?"

Already have an account? Login first
Don't have an account? Register in under one minute and get your own agony aunt column - recommended!

All Content Copyright (C) DearCupid.ORG 2004-2008 - we actively monitor for copyright theft

0.0312935000001744!