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female
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36-40,
*olovley
writes:Hi Im going through a bad patch with my boyfriend of 4 years for a few specific reasons, firstly he moved in with 2 girls and his friend, he never discussed this with me and it really bothers me as I feel so jealous. The other thing is that he met his ex girlfriend on a few occasions and they start texting each other, her offering to help him with a few things at his work.(He never told me about this either I looked at his phone, when I found the text he lied about who it was) The next thing is that he texted a girl to meet up with her when he was going away with his friends, a girl who he has never mentioned to me. After all of this I have decided although this makes me unhappy I really do love him and I want to be with him. I want to know how confident assured people (like yourselves)deal with these types of things without having a total meltdown. Im currently completing a very demanding academic year and I cant take the extra stress. I just want to be happy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2010): "I just want to be happy." Yes you deserve that and it's not going to happen with this guy.
Caring guy is right, take out the "emotion" factor as he showed you.
You can do much better, much as it hurts now this situation will not improve with time.
Find a guy who will be "in love with you" not this pinhead who just wants to be 'friends' when he's got nothing better going.
Not trying to be hurtful,*sorry ;-)* but you do deserve honesty and you sure have not been getting that for some time. Time to put your foot down stop the merry-go-round and get off the dang thing.
wish you the best.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (9 January 2010):
You have to look at this kind of thing without emotion (which is very hard). But take away how you feel and look at the facts. He moved in with two girls and a male friend, and didn't discuss this with you. He has now met with his ex on numerous occasions and lied to you about who it was. And he texted another girl to meet up with her when he was going away with friends, and didn't tell you about it. Fact is, he's either cheating, or he's moving away from this relationship. Personally, I really believe you would do better to move on. He clearly doesn't love you or respect you enough, and you can do better.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2010): Oh my lord dump him. He's doesn't respect you. Soon he's gonna be cheating on you TRUST ME
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reader, TheXxHelloKitty  +, writes (9 January 2010):
 First of all, don't ever go crazy about some guy...if he is stressing you out leave him.If you really really want to be happy then 'd leave him...
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