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writes:when my and my boyfriend hooked up we decided that we were going to date for a couple of years before we thought about doing anything sexual...its been two months and we have done everything but have sex and he said he wants to if i want to but he will never force me into doing it..im scared..i want to honestly but should i be worried about him always wanting do sexual things all the time? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2010): Nice about promising not to rape you... I agree, I'd get a list of other heinous things that you don't want to experience from him too.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (9 January 2010):
He's said he'll never force you? How nice. "I promise I'll never rape you!!" How romantic. You should get him to promise never to stab you as well. Just to be sure.
Of course he wants to have sex after a couple of months. He's a teenage boy and has hormones going INSANE in his head when ever he gets near a pretty girl.
However, it's a REALLY bad idea to do it. you are underage and sex is a BIG thing.
You have so many other things you can do apart from sex. But till you are legal, a session of snogging (making out?) and letting his hands under your top is ALL you should be giving him.
You've really not being going out that long, so remember you are in total control and he has to wait till YOU decide you are ready to let him do ANYTHING!
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (9 January 2010):
I think it's best to wait. It's illegal at your age, and you need to slow down and really get to know each other at the moment.
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