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writes:I was in a 10 month relationship, a lot of arguing but still a good one in my opinion. He said he wanted to take a break, just a few weeks to see if we still wanted to be together or if we could find someone else we wanted to be with. 2 weeks after we broke up, I went to the movies with 3 guys and this other guy joined a little bit before we went in. Me and this dude ended up making out and liking each other. My ex was also talking to someone else at the time. So I told him what I did that night, if I didn't he would have been more upset. He got really upset at me and he told me that I really hurt him and that he couldn't trust me anymore. Its been almost 5 months since we broke up and we have still been talking, even tho he has also occasionally been talking to others. We still constantly argue but we still love each other like crazy. He has also hurt me a lot with talking to other girls, kissing my best friend that I got into an argument with, making out with me and then sneaking out with 2 of his guy friends to the girl he was talking to awhile backs house and kissing her, and sneaking out just him and the same girl and kinda cuddling, holding hands, and laying in her lap. So pretty much what I am asking is, What should I do about this relationship? and What should I do to get him to forgive me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2010): Get away and stay away from him. There are too many games going on here to keep track of!!! Plus the fact that all you guys do is argue! Go find someone else who will really care for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you(:
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2010): What should you do? You should get out of it! You might love him, but he doesnt love you if he is doing those things when your older you will realize that now that your young you think these things are acceptable when someone really loves you they wont go sneaking around kissing other girls. You need to run as far as you can from this guy honestly, remind him what he has done also and say that you wanted to be honest and upfront about it, if he doesnt respect that then he DEFINATELY doesnt care all too much, i know its not what you want to hear most likely but this relationship is unhealthy for you both and if you dont make smart decisions now then your gonna be doomed to a lot more hurt then you need to go through, you should end the relationship right now.
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