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writes:I'm very worried that i hurt my boyfriend bad. A couple of days ago we had sex, and he started to bleed. I mean, he said it was a little cut though but it was a lot of blood. I really don't know what caused it though. /: He says that it stings at times when he uses the bathroom. What happened? Help. :( Reply to this Question
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reader, Not My Name  +, writes (10 January 2010):
 Hmmmm lol, I was trying to not make a personal remark with my last posting, ...but since Soon567 has indicated this happening to him, and it seems, indicated hair was a factor in his situation, ...what the hell, let me tell you that hair is not neccesarily neccessary in this equation.
I have some up top, ...but not where a penis is gunna enter, ...and my partner did exactly this to himself not even 2 weeks ago. He does not have a tight foreskin, was not contacted by my nails, teeth, etc, and my arousal was most definately not a problem.
Truth be told, I was over aroused on this occassion, thought it might have been reducing sensation for him, got him to stop for a sec, grabbed a cloth, and used it to absorb some of the moisture. Clearly too much tho, coz I threw it aside, he went to vigorously get back in to it, and ended up reeling back screaming 'owwww'. (Which is why I suggested he should know the moment it happened lol)
Yup he ripped his freddy foreskin and bled like a stuck pig. So I was apologizing for taking too much 'slippery' away, he was blaming himself for being like a bull at a gate to get going again, but at the end of the day, he was sore for a few days before he could get back in action again, and nothing more to it, but a cautionary tale to tell lol.
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reader, Not My Name +, writes (10 January 2010):
Does he have a foreskin?
If so, ...
It may have got pulled back too much/fast/ rough
You may not have been sufficiently lubricated to prevent that much friction.
He may have a tight foreskin problem. I know a guy who had this issue and ended up having to go to hospital from damage done to himself trying anal sex. (not with me btw lol)
With or without a foreskin, it could have accidentally happened from fingernails - tho he should know the moment when it occured to know what was going on when he hurt it.
Just some thoughts.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2010): ??? Never heard anything like this from having sex, and I doubt that you caused it... encourage him to get to a clinic and get checked out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2010): I am no doctor, but this does not sound good. It could be a cut. Bleeding could also be caused by some other type of injury or illness. You should tell him to get a check up, just to be safe.
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reader, lolli-pop  +, writes (10 January 2010):
he may need to go to the doctor as his foreskin may be too tight and when you had sex it may have caused it to split
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2010): Do not feel bad about it, please urge him to get that checked out by a doctor. It seems like he is ignoring it because he's afriad it may be something more serious. Although from what you posted it seems that he just cut himself.
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