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writes:Hi I am having a relationship with a man and it has been long term about 10yrs. He does not love me as he has told me so but we have a great time together and our sex life is great.I do have strong feelings for him. But lately he has been acting strange.I went away for the holidays for a couple of days but came home early because there were floods.I had not told him i was home so when i finally did he got rather anoyed with me. Saying here he was worrying crazy about me in the floods and why didn't i inform him i was home,i didn't see the need to tell him i was home as i never thought he would even worry about me that much.Now he has been saying lets call it quits because you never keep me informed about what you are doing and you only want me for one thing i think he means sex and that he is not important to me. He is very important to me, but i never expected him to carry on like this after all he doesn't love me so why all the fuss. then i get a txt saying i don't know why i'm doing this and sends me a goodnight and kisses and hugs and he has been sending txt every day twice a day since. i'm happy to stay with him because i care for him but what is his problem?
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reader, fishdish  +, writes (9 January 2010):
 I guess it's possible that he didn't realize how important you really are to him and the floods were a wakeup call, or perhaps he realized from your explanation for not alerting him to your return home ( the 'i didn't think you'd care that much' thing) that he's really not showing his true feelings towards you and he's trying to be better about it. these are just guesses.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2010): He obviously likes you! :) However, he doesn't seem like he wants to admit it. I'm not sure why. Remember, men aren't very mysterious. They either want you, or not. He obviously wants you. If I were you, I'd ask him - "are the rules changing now regarding our relationship?"Good luck! Keep us updated :)
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