A
female
age
30-35,
*issEmilina
writes:Dear Cupid,i have been with my boyfriend for nearly eight months now and he is such a sweet guy and easy enough to get along with but lately i have been feeling wierd about the relationship.We only usually get to see each other twice a week sometimes because he is in college and im still in secondary school so it makes it hard to spend quality time with each other. Because i have had a very busy few weeks we have not seen each other in over a week and its been a real strain on us.But what my problem is, is that i dont really mind not seein him! Even when we text i get bored of talking to him and never know what to say to him anymore and for some reason i keep not wanting to hang out. I don't know whtas wrong with me because he is the best voyfriend ive ever had and no one has cared for me the way he does. We have told each other we love one another but lately i jus don't feel it anymoreDoes this relationship have a future?
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reader, flyygurl  +, writes (13 January 2010):
Having been in that situation before (twice) I did the most honest thing I could for myself. I asked myself "Do you love him?" The answer was yes for both situations. Then I asked myself "Are you in love with him?" And the answer in both situations was no. I ended up walking away from the relationships because I felt it was not fair to me or to him to stay in it when I had doubts and was no longer in love. I always live by the philosophy "If it's meant to be, it'll work itself out." Hope I helped a little...good luck.
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