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anonymous
writes:my partner danced with another girl at a family wedding, whilst i was pregnant and he didnt really acknowlege that i was there as he was so drunk, (he did ask me to attend and everything was ok until he got drunk) then he kissed this girl i dont mean a peck on the cheek it was a smacker on the lips it this cheating or am i being paranoid?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2010): yep, he cheated , whether drunk or not.
to add to your misery you are pregnant with HIS child. i am sure he not only pushed his tongue down her throat, he was feeling her up too. what is his pathetic excuse. and please tell him not to blame the alcohol.
he needs to pay, and pay dearly. the kissing is just a start, where will it all end. he is disrespectful and he took liberties. why didn't he even acknowledge you at the wedding? drunk or not this ones a loser. you are young, one day you will wake up and toss his sorry ass out.
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (10 January 2010):
 If you have to sneak around behind someone's back to do it, then in my opinion, it's cheating. It's betraying someone's trust. What he did wasn't as bad as having intercourse with another girl, but it was extremely disrespectful... he had better be sorry.
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reader, boo22 +, writes (10 January 2010):
 It probably isn't cheating but what it definitely is though is selfish, rude and hurtful.
That's what your husband was unfortunately.
I hope he's very very sorry now.
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reader, Honest Answer  +, writes (9 January 2010):
 Kiss another man in front of your boyfriend like he kissed that girl, and then ask your boyfriend if it was cheating.
Good Luck!
Jeff
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2010): Yes, it is cheating in my opinion however some people wouldn't count that as cheating. Get rid of him and move on. Not only did he cheat on you, he cheated on you in full view of you and whilst you were pregnant. Did the girl he kissed know that he was with you? If so that makes her as bad as him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2010): ah bless you!i can certainly see why you are upset sweetie,pregnant and partner dancing and kissing someone else,thats so unthoughtful and not right.OK!!! he was drunk but sorry thats no excuse for this behaviour as he should be nurturing his woman/mother off his child.Please talk to him because as i see it honey,if he does this in front off you then what would he be capable off when he goes out and you are left home alone looking after the baby while he goes out.You really need to let him know this has upset,worried and hurt you.All the best xx
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (9 January 2010):
You don't like it and don't find it acceptable so that's all that matters.
There is no grand rule book of "what is and what is not cheating."
You were pregnant and he acted like an idiot, and then acted in a horribly disrespectful way right in front of you.
Let him know you are upset and let him make it up to you.
Good Luck!! xx
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