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Is she playing hard to get?

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Question - (25 November 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 25 November 2009)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

heey,

I would just like to know what is going on here,

a girl class mate that i knew for 3 months, we really fit together and we have fun but as friends first

but offcrse i knew she cares about me cuz she showed her interest by hitting, teasing, being jealous

so she knew i also care about her and i confess that to her but she went nervous and didnt know what to say

anyway later on things between us developed, i kissed her

later on and she was happy then she said that in the same time she has something goin on with another guy and they she says she got closer to him as with me then she said we are just friends now.

today i talked about what she sent me about being confused in the middle of 2 guys and she said u both r really nice

but when i talked with her, i knew i had to make quick smart questions about that matter but she could replay on them so i knew she was just lying about the other guy and im sure 100% about that, she didnt know what to say when i told her like his name, where do he come from and she said i will tell u 2morrow so she has time to make a story!

then i told her but u said that u r just friends before then she couldnt answer me !!

and said i do care about you and you are the nicest guy in class but i would like to stay friends this time and let the future decides

so is she playing hard to get and doesnt want to fall easily and want me to try harder to get her or what do u think??

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (25 November 2009):

I think's confused at the moment about what she wants. Listen to what she has said, she wants to be friends. Believe me, if she was really that interested, nothing would have stopped her. But don't wait around either. Make sure you're meeting other people. She needs to be able to decide what she wants herself, without being hassled. Just leave it as friends at the moment. If she decides she wants you, she'll come to you.

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