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anonymous
writes:How can I know it I have what it takes to be a second wife? His first wife was his highschool sweetheart and they have two kids together. She makes his life a living hell now. They divorced because she cheated eight times. I'm just afraid I'll always feel like a shadow wife. Never being his first anything. He was my first everything.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWhat if he refuses? He is a packrat (he's in his 30's and still has notes from high school)... when I asked him before he uses the well I don't even know where they are. If I beg (I know, but I was really hurt) he says he will when he comes across them. He's come across them... but still has them. I don't know if I'm just being insecure... or if I need to realize this is a problem. Thank you for your replies so far, it's nice to get guy view!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWhat really bothers me already is that he keeps the love letters from when they were dating/engaged. And the photos... He keeps letters from the others that were 'special' after his ex-wife and before me too. How he reassured them they were 'special' with the same words he tells me... cuts me to the core.
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