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female
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writes:hello i was thirteen when i knew him i loved him more then anything in this life and i still do maybe way more , well i left him cause i had to move to an other country for some reasons for over a year now am 19y this summer i went there for vacation and i met him we had nice moments together that i wont forget , my problem is when i came back to the states the first month i was fine the second month till now i cant sleep in night and every time i see his shadow front of me or sleeping with me when i call him on the phone and i hung up i want to throw up and my stomach hurts and i feel like i wanna scream i called him and i said will u marry me i cant live without you am getting sick he said am young am only 23 and i need to finish my education and its not easy for me to move to the states just like that , now am feeling way more sick cause i feel am going to loose him forever and i wont be with him and i guess he doesn't love me or maybe he did but he doesn't wanna show it , its really complicated but the only thing i can say i cant be with any man ever in my life and i will have the same feeling to him no matter what happened is just being apart from him is killing me. does anyone can tell me whats going on with me and what i can do/? . Reply to this Question
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reader, Saraah  +, writes (25 November 2009):
You first fell in love with him when you were 13! - that would make him 17! What on earth was he thinking even looking at a 13 year old in that way?! Still, 13 is a very young age to fall in love, but you do seem to be head over heels with this lad. Ringing him up and asking him to marry you from a "blast in the past", seems a bit extreme and he probably doesn't want to see you after that. What you need to do, is start going out more. Head to the gym and then go on a few nights out. The lads will start to notice you, and once you get talking to them, your interests will change and you'll find it easier getting over this lad.
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