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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend has a major problem with commitment. I know he loves me but he pushes me away because of his past! One girl that he was with spilt her wrists because she was totally in love with him and he left her. And thats what she did. And he was with someone else for 5 years they had a child together and that hurt him losing his child not being able to be with her everyday! Hes told me that i am the best that ever happened to him and for him to open up to me and talk is a big thing for him to do. Hes told me he feels vunerable and he dont like people getting to close. That why hes has a past of sleeping around cos he dont like anyone getting close! I love him with all my heart i want to be with him. But weve been together 3 years now on/off. And weve spilt cos i always want more than he has too offer! But when hes away from me he realises what a big mistake and how much i mean too him he comes back! In reality he acts like this big hard man infront off his mates.but when hes with me he so soft. Caring and loving. But i dont want to spend another 3 years without him commiting. But love him so much. What do i do? Im confused. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2009): I think you should have a talk with him, my boyfriend and i are going thru the same thing! I undestand where your coming from!... Let him know give him a WARNING! If he doesn't respond then you might be waisting your time and effort in to your relationship!... eather one of you has to give up... ether you stay with him NOT being married like does kinds of couples or he stops putting up excuses and marri you!... I HOPE IT WORKS OUT..if not you deserve better!!! xxx
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