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For the boys: Innocent or not innocent? Tall or short? Athletic or not?

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Question - (1 May 2009) 10 Answers - (Newest, 30 October 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, *organ5885 writes:

i want to know what the guys out there look for in a girl.. do you (guys) like girls that look more innocent or not innocent?

do you prefer girls that are tall? or short?

do you prefer girls that are athletic or not athletic?

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A male reader, Aulin Bangladesh +, writes (30 October 2009):

I'd like a intelligent but innocent girl. But she must not look silly. I'd prefere a girl whose height matches with me. She should be shorter than me but not very short. I'd prefere a good body figure. But the most most important thing is she should have a good personality, be caring , loving,good minded,whom i can trust and with whom i can pass time with pleasure.

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A male reader, malum424 United States +, writes (2 May 2009):

malum424 agony auntso what you're really asking is cute vs hot well I like the cute girl with a little meat on their bones as for tall or short both because I'm on the short side at 5'7"/170 cm so hieght never really seem that big a deal to me, that and everyone is taller then me lol.As a side note I really like tomboy.

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A male reader, daletom United States +, writes (2 May 2009):

Overall, I'd guess that looking "innocent" will attract more guys than it repels. Regardless of the headcount I suspect you're only looking for ONE guy - at least, one at a time. And if you look TOO innocent you may be attracting guys who have the specific intent of trying to take advantage of you in some way (not necessarily sexual).

As for tall - that has been discussed on here many times. Overall, tall is probably preferred to short but most guys would probably put "height/weight proportionate" ahead of either "tall" or "short". If height was the ONLY criteria for choosing a girl I'd first ask who thought up these dumb ways to categorize people - and if you twisted my arm real hard to give an answer I'd say she should be somewhere between 5'7 (170 cm) and 6'4 (193 cm). (I'm almost 6'2 myself; my wife is 5'9 to 5'10.)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2009):

lol you are female... its the only category needed in my books.

cute and innocent are good looks - be happy.

tall is also good....

Star.x.

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A female reader, morgan5885 United States +, writes (1 May 2009):

morgan5885 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

i dont mean look innocent as in put on a look i mean people call me cute more than hot and they say i look innocent, and i'm wondering if that's a good or a bad thing in a guy's opinion

and almost 5'9"... is that too tall?

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A male reader, ArmyMedic United Kingdom +, writes (1 May 2009):

ArmyMedic agony auntIntelligence and humour, all the other physical stuff doesn't matter that much.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2009):

If she can make me laugh, it doesn't matter what size or shape she is as long as she's in proportion. She would have to enjoy having her tits played with because I like playing with tits. If she liked boats that would be a bonus. Nice arse that looks good in tight jeans. If she liked drinking rum I'd have to think twice about her because that would halve my ration. Good cook - desirable but not essential becuase I'm not a bad cook myself. Thoughtful. Sense of humour, sick or otherwise. She would laugh with me when I fart.

Basically, everyone is different and different people look for different things in a woman.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2009):

breasts is a good start - size and shape irrelevant, preferably 2, but one if a good reason.

athletic or not - not fused if i can out run them.

tall or short - red white or blue.

just needs to have something - a special something... the rest nah not important.

Star.x.

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A male reader, daletom United States +, writes (1 May 2009):

If I wanted a girl to be my wife forever and always I would first want her to be intelligent. Articulate is nice, but quiet has a special charm.

I'd probably choose tall over short, somewhat athletic appearance (but probably not a "jock"). Smallish, shapely boobs win out over big ones in my book.

I'd prefer a girl to be knowledgeable yet remain innocent, but not be naieve. And I don't mean that she should "look innocent". For that matter, I'm a bit turned-off by any woman who thinks she has to "put on" ANY kind of a "look", whether it's an "innocent look" or a "glamorous look" or a "sports look" or a "power look" - anything that isn't her natural person.

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A male reader, helpdan? United Kingdom +, writes (1 May 2009):

The things i look for in a girl are, a good personality, someone who listens, trustworthy, someone who i can just talk to. So i like innocent, short cause im short!! and athletic because if your not athletic your just too lazy!

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