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anonymous
writes:I'm struggling with single life.When I go out with friends, or when I hang around with my flat-mates I always see couples and it makes me feel jealous. Last night, I looked across the room and saw my flat-mate and his girlfriend playing together. They weren't doing anything sexual, they were just laughing and cuddling and generally having a good time together. I'm always seeing things like that when I go out - couples making eachother happy.I haven't had something like that in my life for a long time now, and I really want to have that again. I don't want to be some jealous loser, so how can I cope with this? Or better yet, is there anyway that I can get a girlfriend of my own?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2009): hun trust me i been single a LOOOOOOOOOOONG time as well
and im like you i go out i see people with other people i get jealous i think why can't i have that?
don't i deserve it?
and i do deserve it!
i'm not a horrible person and i'm sure you're not either.
it is just finding the nice person you want to be with is the trouble.
alot of people seem nice and then can turn out to be right turnips!
trust me hun you'll get there!
but definately take your time and pick carefull
hope this helps.
best of luck hun!
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reader, Fiona xxx +, writes (1 May 2009):
 In many ways, this is a nice topic. Often people think that relationships are all bad, and wonder if relationships going sour are the norm.
You sound a nice guy who would be happy with a nice girl. You sound like somebody who wants to make the best of things and enjoy life and understand that relationships are about enjoyment and sharing life together etc.
Good luck and I hope you meet somebody soon.
Fiona
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reader, aphexinfinite +, writes (1 May 2009):
 aww bless ya. we all go through the same thing from time to time so dont feel alone on this. sometimes after a relationship we need to focus on ourselfs or just mending our hearts. it seems your already good to go.just whats stopping you from puting yourself out their? have you done new activities ? gone out to places were you may be able to promote yourself so to speak.sitting at home watching your flat mate have fun doesnt seem like your promoting yourself at all. so start doing new things or pick up old hobbies you never know were fate may lead you. but fate wont do it all itself so you need to give it a hand by going in new directions. and your not jealous i think your more envious you want what he has is happy loving relationship and theirs nothing wrong with that we all want love and attention and happyness. but you have to help look for it it wont fall in your lap so go out and do new hobbies. good luck aphex
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