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writes: In simple terms - my relationship with my boyfriend, feels like a friendship. I don't know; maybe I jumped to conclusions deciding I liked him, maybe I did at the time but not now, maybe I should have waited to get to know him better.When he asked me out I said yes because I thought I genuinely did like the guy, and for the first 3days the relationship was going great, then we had a 2week holiday from school (he had my number, i didn't have his) and I didn't hear from him once for the first week I checked my phone every 10mins, by the second I had given up and didn't really even care.When we got back to school we didn't even really talk much, and it wasn't just him not talking to me- it was both of us. Both of our friends were trying to force us to talk, hug, holds and stuff. It's not that I don't like him, I really do, but I think I might just like him as a friend. He said something to a friend of mine about me and I think its the sweetest thing anyone has ever said about me, so I'm feeling so so guilty about everything.what should I do? and if you think i should break up with him, how should i do it? I screwed up my last break up Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Seven_Deadlies +, writes (1 May 2009):
I think you a have a big crush. Thrill of the chase if you know what I mean. The best thing is to tell him you've been feeling like this. And that he seems more of a friend, instead of stringing him on.Either that or you can really make the effort, arrange to do things together and get the flow going again :)
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