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writes:okay, theres this boy i like and he likes me aswell. all week hes been saying hi to me and smiled and the usual stuff. then he said to everyone he really really likes me and blushes when he hears my name. and todayhe wrote on his hand our names together,and yesterday he said that if i asked him out he would say yeah but THEN somebody said to me hes just joking about and another person said that he said i speak about everybodys back and he would rather go out with this girl i hate than me, is hejust saying that because he knows they will go and tell me this and to make me jealous? and last time we went out we didnt really speak, but i dont know what to say to him, because hes like bad behaved so i cant really speakto him about school or things like that? please please help me, but i dont want any unhelpful or hurtful advice? theres more detail to this, if you need to know please let me know xxx[Moderator's note: What makes you say he is ill-behaved? If you have other relevant details, don't hesitate to write an update!]
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reader, Lilly Rose +, writes (1 May 2009):
 If he like's you then he will make a move, ask you out or flirt a little. So if you like the guy then just test the water, maybe flirt with him see if he reacts to that, or ask friends what it looks like when he is around you becoz body lanugage is def a big sign! Don't stress yourself out to much as there are plenty more fish in the sea!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2009): none of these harmful comments towards you were from him. did u hear him say it? it was from other people wasn't it so dont trust them. they could be jealous or something. dont accuse him of saying these things because he might get hurt.maybe he doesnt know what to say to u and that y he was quiet or it was another reason that was nothing to do with you.just see how it goes, and dont trust the comments unless they come out of his mouth. i hope it goes well.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2009): It does sound he likes you, so don't take notice of the people who said those things to you. BUT...He behaves badly? If so, why? if there's no valid reason, steer clear! You don't need guys like that in your life! If something did happen between you two, it wouldn't be good if you can't talk to him about any problems you may have. Having said that, if you gave him a chance and/or asked him out (even with his 'behaviour') problem, maybe he will open up more if you get closer.
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