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First time (69) , clueless... please share your experiences.

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Question - (1 May 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 2 May 2009)
A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi, my boyfriend wants to try a (69) and i'm up for it, the thing is I never gave him or anyone oral and I'm pretty inexperienced, unlike him so how should it go? I don't want to be under so that he doesn't smoother me and at the same time I dont want to be on top as I'm well shy, any advice? Like how was your first time? What should I expect? extra would be great .. thanks

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A male reader, Love4Life United States +, writes (2 May 2009):

Love4Life agony auntFirst you should try to give him oral just so you get a little comfortable. On a 69 I and my wife find it easier if she is on top as to I have a pole sticking out and she does not. So I would not want to smother her if I were on top. Also it's easier for you to take control of his AKA (Ship) and drive it the way you want. It's still going to be harder than you think it's something that take practice but gets easier over time. I hope this has helped...

Miah

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A female reader, hotlips4 United Kingdom +, writes (1 May 2009):

1st things 1st... talk to him tell him u dont really no what your doing. if he really loves u he will be cool bout it and you might find he dont really know much bout what tto do either.

2ndly maybe dont do it one on top one under try both lyin on your side.

3rdly he will be too busy concentratin on tryin to please you to be worrying bout wot ur doin to him.

Most guys wont do their "stuff" from oral anyways so dont worry bout that either. hope that maybe helps u a bit.

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