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writes:Im a student at university and everyday i study in the library because of exams. and theres this girl who i think is really nice that i see there and i would like to get to know her. but recently a group of ppl in the library put on a porn video and raised the volume and everyone could hear it. it was immature but funny at the same time. we both made eye contact and we both smiled. but now if i "break the ice" shes gna think that im only hittin on her for sex.what do i do?
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (1 May 2009):
 I don't see why she would think that. Like redharley said, you can use that for an ice-breaker.
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reader, Undisclosed  +, writes (1 May 2009):
 So the reason why you think she's gonna think you're hitting her up only for sex is because of the group that blasted a porno in the library and by mere association with them, you must fall in the category of horny sex-driven guys in her mind, right? If you were a plain vanilla mysterious guy before, this porno incident has now tainted her image of you and spoiled your chances with her, right? I'm guessing that this is what you're thinking?Don't worry about it. You both made eye contact and smiled. It's all good. Unless you propped up your eyebrows and traced your lips with your wet tongue seductively while you did it, I wouldn't worry about it. (You didn't, right?)You miss 100% of the shots you don't take. Just go talk to her. Go break the ice. You have no idea what she's thinking because you've never even broken the ice. Who cares what she thought. The only window into your thoughts she has of you so far is a smile. Go give her more."I didn't know this section of the library was rated R. Do you study here often?...""Don't you find it a lot quieter today without porno music blaring in background?..."Have fun.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2009): I don't understand why she would assume that. Were you one of the guys playing the video? And even if you were, i don't see how she would think that. I wouldn't.. maybe i'm just oblivious though..
Maybe if you approach her by saying.. "hey.. sorry about the other day. Those guys were pretty immature.. huh?"
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reader, KickRox  +, writes (1 May 2009):
 Kinda funny and a good way to start a conversation with her.:)
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reader, redharley +, writes (1 May 2009):
 Let that be the ice breaker. Walk up and say "wow that was crazy huh" and go from there. lol
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