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writes: Three years ago I met a girl through my boyfriend's best buddy. She was really fun and nice. She is a hot supermodel type, and from Europe somewhere. She was very open; willing to do anything sexually, which I learned from her attitude and from her boyfriend (whom was married @ the time) When the four of us hung out, there were moments she would aggressively flirt with my boyfriend. She would touch his back and talk to him with a seductive, open, and flirty attitude. I didn't say anything to either person because I was soft then.Today I handle things differently; I enforce my standards. Haven't seen her in two years. She emailed me last week and wanted to touch base, be friends. I replied, "Because you went after and flirted with my boyfriend I do NOT want to be friends".I told my boyfriend about it and he seemed pleased.My question is: Should I keep a heads up for any action on her part?
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries +, writes (1 May 2009):
well you said her boyfriend at the time was a married man?
then definately keep your eye on her
i mean she may just want to be friends because she wants a bloke you have.
they seem to want everythign some girls
if they've got a boyfriend they want one they can't have they see it as a challenge
then once it's done with onto the next male.
but keep an eye on him too because he may be seduced into it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2009): I think you'd do better to keep a heads up for action on your boyfriend's part. After you told your boyfriend about your reply to her, he was hardly likely to greet the information any differently to how he did, now was he?
Having said that, if he ignored her flirtatious advances previously I don't think you need worry about either of them now.
She may have supermodel looks and attitude but there's every chance she's a bitch to live with!
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