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writes:My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half now. We started having sex 10 months after we started dating, and since then all i want to do is make love to him!... everything was ok for 4 months but now he doesnt feel like doing it as much as he used to!.. he says all i do is think sbout sex but i just think he doesnt feel atracted to me any more!... SHOULD I SLOW DOWN? Reply to this Question
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reader, Lilly Rose  +, writes (1 May 2009):
 It could be he has a lower sex drive then you.....wanting sex with the man you love is natural...best thing is to explain to him, let him know your worried about this and you feel he might be going off you. Im sure he is not, like i said could just be your more highly sexed then him!!!
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reader, MyWife,MyLife  +, writes (1 May 2009):
It could be either or, he may just not feel like doing it as much as he used to or he may not feel as attracted to you anymore. Either way, you should discuss this and find a solution. My wife and I both have periods of highs and lows in our sexuality but are both still very attracted to each other, well, me to her, lol... So it may be something as simple as that. If he's lost his sexual desire for you, specifically, that's something that I would hope he would be honest with you about. That would be something the two of you could work on or not. Up to you entirely. If you are sexually frustrated and he doesn't or isn't willing to work with you on it, a lot more frustration lies ahead.
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