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41-50,
*hannon Williams
writes:There is a guy I've talking with on line for abour 3 years, he has always told me he doesn't want to have agirlfriend or a serious relationship, we tried having a coffee together but it did not work really however we take on great just talking on the net. Recently he was going out with a girl and he used to tell me he did not want to compromise or to really get close to her as he is not like that, the girl dropped him and he suddenly wants to go out with me late at night, I told hiem that a coffee would be ok in the afternoon but he insisted so much about meeting up at night for a concert that I said ok call me these days, I havent answered the phone as I considered that he has never wanted to go out with friends of mine nor to really socialise with me until now and I find it strange and nont comfy about it. Maybe It's a bit paranoic on my side not to feel comfy about this guy but I don't really know if I want to give him the chance to be my something as once when I invited him to dinner with my friends he got vvery upset and agressive about the point while talling with me on msn.Any tips to cope???
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2009): I think you are doing the right thing. It sounds like he would be using you to fill a gap. In fact in some ways I think when people talk on the internet they are filling a gap in their real lives.
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