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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Ok, so there's this guy I met him in a restaurant I always go to. He asked me for my number so he can always have my food ready before I get there. We started talking, and then he kept telling me he liked me and how he just needed to have my number and wasn't going to let me slip away.So then, me and him met up I went downstairs with him and he gave me oral. Nothing else! So he's a busy guy, and like there's been times when I only receive one text from him. Friday I text him he replies. I reply again no answer. I text him when I get home and no answer. Saturday I didn't write to him at all neither did he. Sunday, he text me and says I forgot about him, then calls I didn't pick up or text. Monday he writes I didn't reply. Tuesday I reply, Wednesday no texts or anything. So today (Thursday) I wrote to him and said I don't want him to feel as if I ignored him, but i've been busy. That I got his call when I woke up in the morning and I text him but I didn't receive a response from him, and if he doing that because he thinks I ignored him to not do it. Then I said call me or text me if anything.What should I do?Is he probably not going to text me for a while since I did the same?( I mean I just wanted to do the same to him, I just didn't know I'd do it for a longer time )I don't want him to feel ignored, I really like him.What do you guys think?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI like both of your answers. One from a male's point of view and the other from a female like myself.
I was starting to think that, but the thing is I like him I didn't want him to feel ignored, but I also don't want him to feel cocky and like really wanted because guys take advantage of that.
But thanks for both of your answers, and I surely will do that.
Thanks again!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2009): Thanks so much!
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reader, Seven_Deadlies  +, writes (1 May 2009):
 I think he's loving the attention. The fact that you've been texting him all the time and eagerly waiting a reply, and then not to get one, keeps him satisfyed, if you know what I mean. I suggest you stop texting him and actually meet him. He'll have no other choice but to talk to you then.
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (1 May 2009):
 I think you two are playing silly games! Why don't you actually meet him and talk like grown ups.
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